her affair has floored me....

[scottb]

Finding it's hard to sit her down and tell her I know what's going on and we need to get this seperation moving...was last Sunday I found out. ..been a shit week...not slept or eaten much sore head cause blood pressure is through the roof....why do I feel like I'm the bad one here...when I do we will need to stay together until Christmas...wouldn't want the kids Christmas wrecked because off us...but no way can I keep this bottled up until after Christmas....she going on as if everything is OK. ....but I'm going out my mind with it....this sucks big time