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Found it, boom. [reasons shared care works for child]
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Problem with shared care is that usually the non resident parent is working full time and the resident parent is usually only working part time. So the NRP is usually not available to take care of the child all the time and if the RP is when you would need help to care for them then they would give that time back to the RP if they ask. Which if they are trying to restrict contact they are more than likely too when they find out. I think that makes sense?

Basically the only way they see shared care working is if you both worked part time and around each other in order to take care of the child. Unfortunately unless you are jobless this is very unlikely to happen as the one receiving child benefit gets all the help regarding the child. Although i do know people that do have it but they havent been through court and done it themselves. One lad i know works 4 on 4 off, the mother works part time and he has them when he is off, her shifts are done around him basically. I think you need to have an amicable relationship for it to work mostly. Although there will be cases where it works also.

I want shared care but i wont get it whilst my daughter is young as the mother works part time and is home most of the week. I will be looking to get closer to it when she starts school as my work will help me out and accommodate me to a degree when i need to drop off and pick up from school.
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RE: Found it, boom. [reasons shared care works for child] - by Charlielovesyou - 03-20-2018, 09:58 PM

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