Thread Rating:
  • 0 Vote(s) - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
At breaking point now
#1
So this is my third thread here and I honestly don't know what to do. My ex has now stooped to the lowest point now, I have had several messages from her over the past few days stating to me that I have been violent towards our two boys and that they are telling people this as it is the truth! I have never once laid a finger on my children and never would. Me ex was the violent and mentally abusive one in our relationship and the kind of person who lies that much that even she believes her own lies, and now I'm scared to death she is drumming it into our boys heads so that they believe it to be true!

Every day I am now waiting for a chap at the door and for it to be the police, and I end up losing my children and my job to these lies, guilty until proven innocent with things like these and mud sticks!

I have been off my work with stress with everything that has been happening and feel like no one will listen to my concerns regarding my oldest sons mental health and thoughts of self harm, I feel like I am banging my head against a brick wall and all I wish for is that someone independent will speak to our children and get to the bottom of what's going on. My oldest sons relationship with me is nearly non existent and he is only 7 and claims he doesn't want to see me anymore, this is of course all coming from her and on handovers his behaviour is alarming and his hatred towards me is upsetting! What point do you say "ok you don't need to come with me this time"...I don't want to give up or walk away but I feel that it's the only thing that's going to stop our sons from becoming seriously mentally harmed, as I am apparently the issue.

Please please help! I feel like I need to go back to court to request CAFCASS become involved again and do another section 7 report as I see no other option.

Thank you in advance.
Reply


Messages In This Thread
At breaking point now - by Larri002 - 11-04-2018, 02:19 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by warwickshire1 - 11-04-2018, 03:51 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Larri002 - 11-04-2018, 07:59 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by warwickshire1 - 11-04-2018, 09:25 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Larri002 - 11-04-2018, 09:54 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Charlie7000 - 11-05-2018, 09:14 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Larri002 - 11-12-2018, 07:02 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Hazy - 11-12-2018, 09:01 PM
RE: At breaking point now - by Larri002 - 11-13-2018, 10:03 AM
RE: At breaking point now - by warwickshire1 - 11-13-2018, 10:33 AM

Possibly Related Threads...
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  Mum breaking CAO prior to Dispute Resolution Hearing Sadman2016 0 392 08-30-2021, 05:25 PM
Last Post: Sadman2016
  Breaking my court order - children being smacked. scottybuk 14 13,509 09-21-2018, 09:43 AM
Last Post: Tamagoto
  Ex breaking contact order Akarou 11 10,389 08-13-2018, 09:17 PM
Last Post: Akarou
  email refresh button breaking Naive 0 1,762 03-29-2018, 10:33 AM
Last Post: Naive
  EXTRA ACCESS APPARENTLY BREAKING COURT ORDER? ootracieoo 1 3,897 09-27-2016, 06:05 PM
Last Post: MarkR



Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)