01-16-2019, 07:44 PM
Some of it is a natural consequence of being single. For example if you lose your job there is no one else to lean on and help with the bills until a new job has been had so being out of work for a period will lead to mortgage arrears etc
Risk taking lessens as you need to be there for the kids.
Relationships. Past relationships that have gone wrong will always affect future relationships whether you were married with kids or not. Through this you have unconsiously set a level of what you will or will not tolerate. Or maybe the time just isn’t right.
I guess for you guys there is also the fear of committing to the extent where you could again lose out financially or get hurt.
Risk taking lessens as you need to be there for the kids.
Relationships. Past relationships that have gone wrong will always affect future relationships whether you were married with kids or not. Through this you have unconsiously set a level of what you will or will not tolerate. Or maybe the time just isn’t right.
I guess for you guys there is also the fear of committing to the extent where you could again lose out financially or get hurt.