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Can anyone offer advice
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She is giving you the best gift she can right now- time. Use it wisely, be polite, never ever argue, treat her as you would a business colleague, record everything, keep a diary of events, keep yourself busy as much as you can- get your own life- do things- reconnect with friends- this is how you will keep your sanity during what is about to become a real sh*t storm.

You have suggested counseling and she says no, the key to remember now is that you cannot control her- so don't snoop or pry or even question what she is up to- if she is doing what you think and waiting for you to find out via clues etc- don't take the bait and confront her- she may use this as an opportunity to make false allegations and go for a non-mol order- don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does- Dignity and integrity is what you have and if you use this time wisely you can begin to get your head around this.

Focus on the parts of your life that you can work on and enjoy- time with the children- again document things, this may help if it ever goes to Family Court etc.

Oh and Good Luck by the way Smile
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Can anyone offer advice - by Malik123 - 05-18-2018, 11:12 AM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Naive - 05-18-2018, 01:00 PM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Malik123 - 05-18-2018, 01:59 PM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Naive - 05-18-2018, 02:11 PM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Malik123 - 05-20-2018, 02:24 AM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Jim - 05-19-2018, 07:21 AM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Malik123 - 05-19-2018, 09:48 PM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by ProTanto - 05-20-2018, 07:14 AM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by takethemike - 05-23-2018, 03:07 PM
RE: Can anyone offer advice - by Jim - 05-24-2018, 10:09 AM

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