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Harassment during contact time.
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First thing - have all this in writing. You have her texts/emails - you need something from the dentist confirming that there was no appointment that day. I had exactly this same thing and my solicitor was very keen to have something in writing from the dentist as not only is she deliberately preventing contact, but she is lying and lying in front of a child! They may not want to get involved - but email the dentist surgery and ask them to please confirm that there was no appointment on x date. Also email the school and ask them to please confirm at what time your child left school on that day and for what reason. Email is evidence as it's written.

Next thing - avoiding the standoff - I had this from the time she received the court application through to the first hearing and it wasn't fully sorted until the final hearing. My Solicitor advised turning up anyway - but she had prepared son and told him he had to stay with her and walked straight past me. This was so stressful for my son I decided not to do it again.

This needs sorting out at court - just going to read back to see where you're at with the legal situation.

Also write a diary note (email it to yourself) Ex name has stopped contact - claimed a dentist appointment but there was no appointment with the dentist and removed child name from school at 2.30pm. Then emailed me saying she was stopping contact as she had safeguarding concerns and social services had told her to do it. Contacted social services who denied this.

Ok so you have a court order - enforce it - complete the C79 form and submit it to the court saying since the recent hearing, contact has been unilaterally stopped. Enclose the police report saying they didn't have any concerns (if you have a copy).

Briefly describe what has happened recently - eg her sending the police round 3 times, then putting in a prohibited steps application and now stopping contact. And add that all this harrassment and accusations and disruptions began since you have a new partner.

At the same time I would apply for a variation. What times have you got at the moment?
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Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-07-2019, 08:26 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-07-2019, 09:51 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Hazy - 01-07-2019, 06:38 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Chi21965 - 01-08-2019, 03:35 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Chi21965 - 01-08-2019, 09:06 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-09-2019, 12:40 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Chi21965 - 01-09-2019, 08:38 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-15-2019, 10:17 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-15-2019, 12:30 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-16-2019, 08:34 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-17-2019, 03:32 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Charlie7000 - 01-17-2019, 04:48 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-18-2019, 08:43 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-21-2019, 08:33 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Tom_W88 - 01-21-2019, 08:49 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-21-2019, 09:24 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Tom_W88 - 01-21-2019, 09:47 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-21-2019, 09:58 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-23-2019, 03:52 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-24-2019, 01:58 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Tom_W88 - 01-25-2019, 11:21 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Tom_W88 - 01-25-2019, 04:25 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-28-2019, 07:36 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-19-2019, 10:15 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-20-2019, 10:51 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-22-2019, 08:17 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-29-2019, 11:28 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 04-08-2019, 07:25 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 04-17-2019, 11:33 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 04-17-2019, 12:21 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 04-17-2019, 07:22 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 04-18-2019, 06:47 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 04-23-2019, 08:19 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-21-2019, 12:34 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-21-2019, 09:39 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-22-2019, 11:39 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-22-2019, 12:10 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-22-2019, 12:30 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-22-2019, 12:32 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-22-2019, 12:49 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-22-2019, 01:13 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-23-2019, 11:07 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Kate - 05-23-2019, 12:36 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-23-2019, 01:03 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-24-2019, 09:43 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Goetia - 05-24-2019, 10:53 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 05-24-2019, 10:37 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-03-2019, 08:52 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-03-2019, 12:12 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-10-2019, 01:21 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 06-10-2019, 02:20 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-12-2019, 09:19 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-13-2019, 08:02 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 06-13-2019, 09:19 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-13-2019, 12:07 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-14-2019, 07:25 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-28-2019, 07:16 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 06-28-2019, 08:46 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 06-28-2019, 09:16 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 06-28-2019, 09:48 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 07-01-2019, 01:13 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 07-01-2019, 05:04 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 07-02-2019, 07:44 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 07-09-2019, 12:28 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 09-05-2019, 11:31 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 09-05-2019, 11:42 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 09-09-2019, 10:46 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 09-10-2019, 09:08 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 09-10-2019, 10:31 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 09-17-2019, 07:37 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Naive - 09-17-2019, 11:08 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 10-23-2019, 12:27 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 10-28-2019, 09:42 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Sb1353 - 10-28-2019, 01:59 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 10-28-2019, 03:16 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 10-28-2019, 02:00 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 11-11-2019, 10:59 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 11-13-2019, 01:07 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 11-14-2019, 03:37 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 11-15-2019, 08:56 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 12-31-2019, 04:19 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-06-2020, 10:05 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-06-2020, 03:05 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-07-2020, 08:34 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-08-2020, 01:51 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 01-20-2020, 09:03 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 02-03-2020, 08:40 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 02-04-2020, 08:30 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 02-04-2020, 04:47 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 02-05-2020, 11:29 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 02-06-2020, 12:16 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 02-07-2020, 09:56 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-11-2020, 09:21 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 03-11-2020, 05:18 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-12-2020, 08:30 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-12-2020, 09:31 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 03-12-2020, 11:14 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-12-2020, 01:59 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by Astroman - 03-12-2020, 06:51 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 03-13-2020, 08:30 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-04-2021, 02:34 PM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-05-2021, 08:05 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 05-07-2021, 08:56 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 07-20-2021, 08:25 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 07-21-2021, 08:03 AM
RE: Harassment during contact time. - by scotay - 10-29-2021, 09:41 AM

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