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IS IT IMPORTANT TO GET DIVORCED
#1
Hello folks, new member here.

HOW important is it to get divorced?

Current situation,

I have two children 11 & 7,
Was with ex 12 yrs, married for last 5 of them, separated and left the family home 2014 3 yrs ago. Been back at my parents house since.

Saving atm getting some money together.

None of us in another relationship,

HOW important is it to get divorced? None of us have really mentioned it since. I've been on lots of dates since etc, Totally no chance of ever getting back together as she does nothing for me anymore and properly vis versa lol.

Im not sure whether to rent and leave my name on the current family home mortgage, or see if she can buy me out? 
house worth 150k with 90k outstanding! 

Both no savings, equal years and amounts in our pensions.

I have no intention of ever getting married again!! even if pamela anderson was to ask :-)

Any ideas?

Kind Regards
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#2
For me, I'd just do it for my own peace of mind. Then I know that hold on me has gone. Plus your ex could still claim part of your pension if her circumstances change, such as if she loses her job.

And she's entitled to a proportion of your lottery winnings.

Because it could be you.
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(11-20-2017, 01:13 PM)Petem Wrote: For me, I'd just do it for my own peace of mind. Then I know that hold on me has gone. Plus your ex could still claim part of your pension if her circumstances change, such as if she loses her job.

And she's entitled to a proportion of your lottery winnings.

Because it could be you.

Thanks of for the reply! Oh yes didn't think of that. haha!
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