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Contact issues
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Hi all im just another dad with the same problems as a lot of people here access being one of them. Id just like peoples views on how I should proceed with my problem in my mind I have an idea of what I want to do but I doubt its achievable. 

I have a contact order for my 8yr old son but ever since it was made my ex has flouted it and used my son as a bargaining chip to get what she wants. She has been neglecting my son his appearance has gone down hill his attitude to things is low also she has hardly been sending him to school, the school have had child enforcement go to her house and she wouldn't let them in after that she bucked her ideas up and he started going to school more but that lasted about a month then the school started involving me and yet again the enforcement officer was involved and I had to have a meeting with her to see what I could do. Me and my ex do not speak we go through her father as she is a nasty piece of work even he doesn't like her so there wasn't much I could do. 

3 weeks ago my son informed me her partner had tried to force him to smoke and also his mom had kicked him and he was being sent to school with no breakfast so I told him to tell the school and I rand social services. She again has had the school on her back and also social services but my son has now changed his story to benefit her even though when he told me I asked him if it was true and said he wouldn't be in trouble for lying and he was very adamant it did happen.

Since this ive been denied contact, well my thinking is obviously to fill in C79 form and apply for the order to be enforced and I was thinking of going for residency due to neglect with the C100 form, has anyone done this and been successful and is there anything I should be aware of before commencing on this battle.

many thanks
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(08-03-2018, 05:33 PM)maverickuk1 Wrote: Hi all im just another dad with the same problems as a lot of people here access being one of them. Id just like peoples views on how I should proceed with my problem in my mind I have an idea of what I want to do but I doubt its achievable. 

I have a contact order for my 8yr old son but ever since it was made my ex has flouted it and used my son as a bargaining chip to get what she wants. She has been neglecting my son his appearance has gone down hill his attitude to things is low also she has hardly been sending him to school, the school have had child enforcement go to her house and she wouldn't let them in after that she bucked her ideas up and he started going to school more but that lasted about a month then the school started involving me and yet again the enforcement officer was involved and I had to have a meeting with her to see what I could do. Me and my ex do not speak we go through her father as she is a nasty piece of work even he doesn't like her so there wasn't much I could do. 

3 weeks ago my son informed me her partner had tried to force him to smoke and also his mom had kicked him and he was being sent to school with no breakfast so I told him to tell the school and I rand social services. She again has had the school on her back and also social services but my son has now changed his story to benefit her even though when he told me I asked him if it was true and said he wouldn't be in trouble for lying and he was very adamant it did happen.

Since this ive been denied contact, well my thinking is obviously to fill in C79 form and apply for the order to be enforced and I was thinking of going for residency due to neglect with the C100 form, has anyone done this and been successful and is there anything I should be aware of before commencing on this battle.

many thanks

You can file a C79 and apply to vary the Order, but you also need a C100. Unless you can get a free applicaiton or reduction, its going to cost 2 applicaiton fees.
Posts made by me are my opinion and any factual information should be checked out. If you do not have a Solicitor, often your local CAB can get you some initial advice.
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