Hello guys
My final order came in Dec18 however I was not feeling well as I broke both of my hands in November and I did not have any solicitor
.
I remember leaving the court the court cussing at the judge.
Long story short I was accused of rape in marriage and domestic violence that the judge said is proved
.
I can not see my children until I admit the rape and domestic violence and go on some kind of course before I can see the children.
The problem is if I admit the rape charges then there is a police investigation waiting in line they would charge me for rape in marriage.
I am now pulling my hair. I went to three solicitors to appeal against the order but they said it is too late i.e. more than 3 months now and also there are no grounds for appeal. and they feel sorry for me to be in this situation about police in waiting..
My ground for appeal are that
I was not feeling well when I attended the courts and was heavily under the morphine medication.
I was not given the opportunity to cross examine my wife directly as she was behind screen and I had to write questions to the judge only.
I want to bring a solicitor now to cross examine her lies as I was not even in the country for the time I was accused of rape.
it is unfair to make me admit the rape charges before I can see my children.
Anyone in situation please share your experience and what are my options.
In my defence I loved my wife of 16 years we also had good relationship. it is only when I caught her cheating she changed and started to accuse me of rape and domestic violence and made police reports in my absence to leave a track. just to get full custody of the children.. I just can't believe my life have changed suddenly because of her actions my children 10&8 are suffering. I have not seen them for over a year now.
Thanks
My final order came in Dec18 however I was not feeling well as I broke both of my hands in November and I did not have any solicitor

I remember leaving the court the court cussing at the judge.
Long story short I was accused of rape in marriage and domestic violence that the judge said is proved

I can not see my children until I admit the rape and domestic violence and go on some kind of course before I can see the children.
The problem is if I admit the rape charges then there is a police investigation waiting in line they would charge me for rape in marriage.
I am now pulling my hair. I went to three solicitors to appeal against the order but they said it is too late i.e. more than 3 months now and also there are no grounds for appeal. and they feel sorry for me to be in this situation about police in waiting..
My ground for appeal are that
I was not feeling well when I attended the courts and was heavily under the morphine medication.
I was not given the opportunity to cross examine my wife directly as she was behind screen and I had to write questions to the judge only.
I want to bring a solicitor now to cross examine her lies as I was not even in the country for the time I was accused of rape.
it is unfair to make me admit the rape charges before I can see my children.
Anyone in situation please share your experience and what are my options.
In my defence I loved my wife of 16 years we also had good relationship. it is only when I caught her cheating she changed and started to accuse me of rape and domestic violence and made police reports in my absence to leave a track. just to get full custody of the children.. I just can't believe my life have changed suddenly because of her actions my children 10&8 are suffering. I have not seen them for over a year now.
Thanks