05-28-2019, 01:55 PM
... Basically because everything has been going great.
I'm not posting this to show off though, more to tell other dads out there that there really is hope, things really do change. Without going too far into the background, the usual, accusations of everything, wife had an affair, lots of time in court, incredible expense, non-mol order between us for a year, ex wife had a baby. Oh and cost me £100K.
But - last week I had coffee during the day with my ex to talk about the kids, we discussed things amicably and with a smile, came away with actions and agreements and everything is ticking over nicely. It's only been 26 months, from the beginning. I was suicidal, I've been on ADs and Valium. I was arrested.
My kids are happy, I'm happy, I don't feel like the world has ended. I'm getting laid. Loads! I wish it hadn't cost so much, hurt so much or left me so very different, but all in all, I'm ok.
You're going to be ok.
We're all going to be ok.
Big dad love to all of you
I'm not posting this to show off though, more to tell other dads out there that there really is hope, things really do change. Without going too far into the background, the usual, accusations of everything, wife had an affair, lots of time in court, incredible expense, non-mol order between us for a year, ex wife had a baby. Oh and cost me £100K.
But - last week I had coffee during the day with my ex to talk about the kids, we discussed things amicably and with a smile, came away with actions and agreements and everything is ticking over nicely. It's only been 26 months, from the beginning. I was suicidal, I've been on ADs and Valium. I was arrested.
My kids are happy, I'm happy, I don't feel like the world has ended. I'm getting laid. Loads! I wish it hadn't cost so much, hurt so much or left me so very different, but all in all, I'm ok.
You're going to be ok.
We're all going to be ok.
Big dad love to all of you