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mother not responding to messages
#1
hi all,
I have my son 5 nights one week and 3 nights the next and it alternates.
also on her "weekend" I take him on the Sunday morning at 10am.
this has been in place for last 3 years.
over the course of those 3 years, ex ranges from being very nice, to downright abusive verbally and via text.
the final straw was a text message sent the other week in which she called me a c**t.
I told her this was unacceptable and the only way we would now speak is if it was to do with child.
she has apologised but I've said enough is enough of which she is not happy with.
she has now blocked me on WhatsApp, will not return my calls and won't reply to text messages when she is in the care of our child.
the only reason I have contacted her, is that over the last week she has not taken him to rugby training twice and his swimming lesson.
when I asked child why he didn't attend, child said 'mummy told me they were cancelled'.
child is also autistic.


Is mediation the only route now?
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#2
Do you have a court order for contact or this agreement is just between the two of you?

Does she still let you have contact as per the above schedule?
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#3
(07-26-2019, 08:28 AM)Tigre Wrote: Do you have a court order for contact or this agreement is just between the two of you?

Does she still let you have contact as per the above schedule?

hi, no court order, this is just our arrangement.  no change to seeing the child I still have the above access.
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#4
Currently, you have a significant amount of time with your son, however you are on the same legal standing as your ex until their is a court order in place.

You need to get the arrangement formalised to avoid the ex disrupting/stopping your time that you are spending with your son. Mediation would be the first and the priority would be to have a court order consented, if mediation does not work then obtain a deadlock letter from the mediator as you will need this as part of your C100 court application.
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