04-03-2016, 09:48 AM
Hello
my ex wife has a drinking problem she has drank a bottle of wine a night and more for the last 7 years she also spend 6 hours plus next door drinking with her friend who is a domestic abuse support worker i have been trying to slow down how much she drinks and the time next door drinking and i thought it was damaging her health and our family life.
on the 11/3/2016 she come home and was in the kitchen with her mum and i got the door when someone knocked it was the courts and i was being hit with non-molestation order, Occupation order, child arrangements and prohibited steps
she got these orders because i was controlling her and she said she is scared i have never raised a hand to a lady in my life even when i have been beaten up by them.
we have a 5 year old girl together who will be 6 on 9/4/2016 and i have not seen her since the day of the split, i am not getting any legal help because of the non-molestation and i am not allowed to contact my ex in any way or i will be arrested, all contact has to be done though her solicitor, i have sent 3 emails asking to see my daughter and had no reply from them, i also have social servers saying they want my daughter to see me on supervised visits for my own safety (so the ex can't say i did or said something) which i am fine with as long as i get to see her.
3 visits have been set up but the first one i could not make as i have just started a new job and it was in working hours with less than 24 hours notice the other 2 visits was 1 weeks notice and all fine but i ex canceled them 24 hours before the visit saying the kids was going away.
i have the child arrangements and prohibited steps hearing on the 15/4/2016 and i have no idea what i am doing or what i should be asking for all i know is what i want and that is to see my girl and if possible have her with me full time as i feel she is unsafe in the house.
i really need some help i have been put on anti depression tablets by the doctor and i can't carry on like this i want to see my little girl i have never gone a day without seeing her until this happened and ever where i turn i get turned down i am at rock bottom right now.
thank you for reading this
my ex wife has a drinking problem she has drank a bottle of wine a night and more for the last 7 years she also spend 6 hours plus next door drinking with her friend who is a domestic abuse support worker i have been trying to slow down how much she drinks and the time next door drinking and i thought it was damaging her health and our family life.
on the 11/3/2016 she come home and was in the kitchen with her mum and i got the door when someone knocked it was the courts and i was being hit with non-molestation order, Occupation order, child arrangements and prohibited steps
she got these orders because i was controlling her and she said she is scared i have never raised a hand to a lady in my life even when i have been beaten up by them.
we have a 5 year old girl together who will be 6 on 9/4/2016 and i have not seen her since the day of the split, i am not getting any legal help because of the non-molestation and i am not allowed to contact my ex in any way or i will be arrested, all contact has to be done though her solicitor, i have sent 3 emails asking to see my daughter and had no reply from them, i also have social servers saying they want my daughter to see me on supervised visits for my own safety (so the ex can't say i did or said something) which i am fine with as long as i get to see her.
3 visits have been set up but the first one i could not make as i have just started a new job and it was in working hours with less than 24 hours notice the other 2 visits was 1 weeks notice and all fine but i ex canceled them 24 hours before the visit saying the kids was going away.
i have the child arrangements and prohibited steps hearing on the 15/4/2016 and i have no idea what i am doing or what i should be asking for all i know is what i want and that is to see my girl and if possible have her with me full time as i feel she is unsafe in the house.
i really need some help i have been put on anti depression tablets by the doctor and i can't carry on like this i want to see my little girl i have never gone a day without seeing her until this happened and ever where i turn i get turned down i am at rock bottom right now.
thank you for reading this