10-05-2019, 07:16 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-05-2019, 07:17 AM by Leader1978.)
Fellow Dads,
Need some guidance here.
I have been living in the former matrimonial home for 12 months; recently my ex relocated 50 miles away without notice with the aim of obstructing my time with the kids, I currently have them 45% of the time. However, she will need to think again as I have in suit relocated to a couple of hundred yards away from the school that my ex has enrolled my daughter into.
The issue now is that the former matrimonial home is co-owned between me and the ex however, neither of us will be living there as we have secured additional accommodation. No financial proceedings have been initiated even though my ex has threatened to submit an application to the court on numerous occasions, my focus was on concluding on the child arrangements prior to engaging in discussions around finances.
We are behind with the mortgage payments and the ex has continued to refuse to contribute since she left, we really need to sell the property before the bank start initiating repossession proceedings, the bank had agreed to some kind of reduction in the monthly payments but needed agreement from the ex as she is a co-owner - the ex has refused to speak to the bank.
I have obtained valuations and shared the details directly with the ex, she is now refusing to sign the agency agreement with the estate agent so that the property can be marketed. I may initiate proceedings myself so that the court can order the sale of the home as their is some equity available. Given her reluctance to communicate to the bank and risk repossession then I may even suggest in my application that the ex is not claiming any financial interest in the property and hence, there should not be any equity due to her.
Any thoughts?
Need some guidance here.
I have been living in the former matrimonial home for 12 months; recently my ex relocated 50 miles away without notice with the aim of obstructing my time with the kids, I currently have them 45% of the time. However, she will need to think again as I have in suit relocated to a couple of hundred yards away from the school that my ex has enrolled my daughter into.
The issue now is that the former matrimonial home is co-owned between me and the ex however, neither of us will be living there as we have secured additional accommodation. No financial proceedings have been initiated even though my ex has threatened to submit an application to the court on numerous occasions, my focus was on concluding on the child arrangements prior to engaging in discussions around finances.
We are behind with the mortgage payments and the ex has continued to refuse to contribute since she left, we really need to sell the property before the bank start initiating repossession proceedings, the bank had agreed to some kind of reduction in the monthly payments but needed agreement from the ex as she is a co-owner - the ex has refused to speak to the bank.
I have obtained valuations and shared the details directly with the ex, she is now refusing to sign the agency agreement with the estate agent so that the property can be marketed. I may initiate proceedings myself so that the court can order the sale of the home as their is some equity available. Given her reluctance to communicate to the bank and risk repossession then I may even suggest in my application that the ex is not claiming any financial interest in the property and hence, there should not be any equity due to her.
Any thoughts?