Divorce and Perjury

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Divorce and Perjury

A person who is proven to have lied in evidence given court is guilty of perjury. The offence can only be made out if an individual has lied under oath. This can be particularly prevalent in the divorce courts. Emotions are running high, and litigants’ views on the ‘facts’ of the marriage and ensuing divorce can vary enormously. But if a person swears, on oath, that they will tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth’ and then goes on to lie, they have committed perjury.

If you need to respond to false claims made under oath in divorce proceedings, you may find it helpful to use our Court Statement Writer.

In divorce cases, however, it can be very difficult to prove. This is because very often the truth is only known between the two divorcing individuals, and that it is essentially one person’s word against the other.

Proving Perjury

There are, however, other cases in which it is possible to prove that an individual has lied under oath. In such situations the penalties are harsh. The problem in divorce cases is that the various authorities involved in the proceedings – the judge, the lawyers, and anyone else – may not care at all that your ex spouse has perjured themselves in the context of your divorce.

Often the financial amounts that are disclosed during the divorce proceedings are less than the reality. It is very common for divorcing couples to try to conceal assets and lower their income for the purpose of trying to ensure that the subsequent payout is much less than it otherwise should have been.

In extreme cases, your former spouse’s lawyer can also provide evidence on affidavit that these lies are true. Again, whether or not there is something that can be done to punish your ex or their lawyer depends on the seriousness of the act and whether or not it can be proved.

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An Example of Perjury

In some extreme cases, however, it can mean that an individual is prosecuted and sent to prison for perjury. There have been numerous high profile cases of perjury in non-divorce cases. One lesser known example is that of a man who forged his wife’s signature on divorce documents (which alone would constitute Perverting The Course Of Justice), and then went to court to swear his evidence.

On oath, the man told the court that his wife had signed the petition but had decided not to have anything else to do with the divorce proceedings. On the strength of the evidence the man gave the court, the judge decided to annul the marriage and issued a decree absolute. Unfortunately, his former wife, who knew nothing of the divorce proceedings, contacted her own solicitor just weeks after the marriage was annulled. Very quickly she learned that she was already divorced and that her former husband had forged her signature and lied on oath to the divorce court in order to get the marriage annulled.

The police quickly intervened. A handwriting expert confirmed that the signature on the divorce documents was far more likely to have been written by the man. He pleaded guilty to perjury and was given a six month prison service, which was suspended for two years.

For more information on divorce proceedings, read our article on Divorce And Contempt of Court on this site.

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Moozle 14/05/2020 at 10:56 pm
Hi I'm curious, as to know if I can have some claim of purgy if my ex husband put he wasn't co habitating and didn't plan to re marry when he wad actually in a relationship and the said girlfriend was pregnant at the time he filed for divorce? Her financial details, were not in his form E. He has a job in law and order and has clearly lied in offical court forms
DJ 12/04/2020 at 1:02 am
My wife has filed for divorce on the "5 Years separated" rule. We have lived apart but have still been doing things as a couple (I have stayed over, had family holidays, days out, intimacy... etc)
I'm thinking that this is perjury but if someone is that desperate for a marriage to end, then I'm kinda getting the message.
I've just signed the form saying I'm not contesting. I'm wondering if the court run checks (I don't know if they look on social media or do any other checks) and it comes out could I get into trouble for not disclosing the truth?

TIA
Eve 08/01/2020 at 6:54 pm
My husband told the court I had been physically served the divorce papers I can prove he was not in the same country as me on that date

He also told the judge o was served by email
I was not
I’m assuming he have a false email to his attorney

The divorce is now finished but I have not yet received my settlement
As he is agreeing I can have custody of the children if I give up my settlement

Can I prosecute him with regards to the perjury

Thank you
Eve 08/01/2020 at 6:46 pm
My husband told the court he had physically served divorce papers with a very elaborate shorty to the judge. He was actually out of the country and I was not physically served. He then added that I was served by email. I’m assuming he provided a false email address to his attorney which his attorney emailed the and served the papers to. I never received any email serving me
I was unable to attend court in Texas as I had a car accident and was living in the uk
I was unable to travel the divorce went ahead
There is much more csn I prosecute just on the above?
Al 24/10/2019 at 10:13 am
This is a question regarding my ex lying in court about a property she owns in Caribbean country, where she and her family used to live. The property has no legal title as yet as the land is still in probate. It was a key factor in a settlement. She is appealing the settlement but I want to pursue her perjury. The evidence I gave was not sufficient for the judge. However if I can get a subpoena to get the local authority in her country to confirm that as far as they are concerned that property is registered with them as hers and they send bills to her, my case is so much stronger. Is that possible?
shaziain 23/07/2019 at 12:49 am
My partner will be divorced in 4 days but is now really ill in a hospice and end of life care. I’ve been blocked and wife is telling him I’ve stolen some of his things. His mental capacity is situational like dementia. I have his divorce papers and proof he has for 2 years been with me. I’ve been to police, safeguarding, used control abuse but it’s like because he is dying no one cares about his volatile relationship with to be x in 4 days and my love for him and pain this is causing. His brother has taken over next of kin while in nhs hospital. He does not have a relationship as well with his brother. Safeguarding have ignored
Cam 01/12/2018 at 9:25 pm
Here’s my story in a nutshell. My ex wife caught me talking to an ex on Facebook messenger (the girl contacted me) bashed and kicked me out of home. After 4 months I got my own place but still managed to do family time with her and the kids but she would always pick a fight when I left and say things like “enjoy your night without your children”.
In retaliation I started to talk to girls online but unfortunately she got access to my computer and called off the marriage saying that this will be a nasty divorce.

Straight away she started dating a guy who I suspect she knew previously which devestated me as I basically was all talk no action as I really wanted to keep my marriage. I approached the guy and sad if you are not serious please leave us alone as I am trying to save a family.

Two weeks later I got a text from him saying “you can have your wife back and stop feeling sorry for yourself.” I thanked him and we started going out on family outings again and I even slept in the same bed as my wife (though no touching)

The following month we entered a fun fair with the boys and took one each and agreed to swap them over regularly. When she didn’t turn up to one I went looking for her and my youngest son. I found her sitting with her family and that guy was alongside her. I then made the biggest mistake of my life. On realising it was him in front of 20000 I punched him three times in the face before I realised what I had done then exited the arena.

No charges were laid but the guy has milked it for everything and it has been used to destroy my life. I tried to apologise for striking him but he would not look me in the eye instead sending snide texts about me when I was standing with my wife outside the courtroom while she said she would see him between 1 week and a year wtf

The next two months went in a blur till I was contacted by my ex who told me she had seperated with the guy and would never see him if I signed the divorce papers. I did not want to sign them but agreed to give everyone closure. Guess what ten days after the divorce she announced she was back with him. This pattern has continued for 8 years even though the guy is now borderline obese and has to wear hats 24/7 as he is paronoid about his bald head.tgey have never lived together.

Worse though is he got her to try and get me banned from my own kids sport as he is not man enough to be near me even though I haven’t spoken to him for 8 years by getting her to put a DVO on me. Lucky as I had never committed physical violence on her the conditions were minor and it was only put in place due to my texts telling her what a disgusting person she was for backtracking on the divorce pledge. He put an affidavit in but was too pathetic not to come to court to be cross examined on his lies so it was excluded,

The order ends in two months . Who knows when the nightmare will end
SeparatedDads Editor 12/06/2018 at 2:51 pm
Your ex cannot leave his son out of any financial agreement and will be responsible for paying child maintenance as the non-resident parent.
Xns 11/06/2018 at 11:19 pm
Please help! Me and my ex husband married in Hong Kong 2010 and have a child together. He left us in May 2013 and travelled back to Hong Kong. Whilst he was in the U.K. he treated my son badly who was 2 at the time. He know wants to leave him out of the Divorce Petition so that he does not pay anything for him but continuously tries to get my son to see his parents. Can he file for a divorce without any mention of my child (he is the father). Can someone please advise? Thank you
RichB Editor 10/04/2018 at 10:42 am
@BB - I'd let this one go. You're not going to get very far with this - it's water under the bridge. What do you expect will happen if you do pursue it? She's not going to get sent to prison. A rap on the knuckles would be about the furthest extent a court would go and then you'll have to pay a fortune in solicitor's fees to get it to court. Don't try to get back at your ex. The most important thing is your kids, so the main thing is to always act in whatever interests are beneficial to them. Personally I can never understand people who will do anything to get even. Letting stuff/anger go is so much less stressful. If you want to get access to your kids, make that your sole objective - not getting even with your ex. Sorry if that sounds a bit harsh - but from this perspective if your mission is to get even with your ex you're playing a losing game.
BB 09/04/2018 at 3:37 pm
My ex lied to the police 5 years ago and got me arrested for alleged domestic violence. Giving a detailed account of untruths however i was never charged and no furthee action. A year later she put another story to the police which got me arrested again and said that it was the first time o had hit her and she couldn't believe it. Once again i was released no charge no further action. She and her boyfriend has pulled countless stunts to ge the children away from me and this weekend i have had enough. How do i get copies of her statement then take her to court for lying to the police. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
angie 04/04/2018 at 6:58 pm
can someone help me please,have been divorce for 19 years but i kept in contact with my ex husband after ten years,I had an eye op in Feb this year and i ask him to come in and help me out for a few weeks,now he does not want to leave the property but he is not leaving. He also have a key the property which he did not give up when he left 19 years ago ,now he is using it to come into the property...what can i do.
Carmen 23/02/2018 at 7:56 pm
Hi, I'll been divorced for 2years I just find out on my divorced paper that the number of years my ex husband filed was fraud . I never read it since at that time I'm very depressed of my life since the company ill been working closed down and the new mgt terminated me which at this time I'm still jobless The divorced letter was in my drawer which my ex husband put . We got married in July of 2003 to December of 2015 but my ex spouse but 5 yrs 2003 to 2007. Do you think it's fraud can I filed perjury.since he take advantage of my situation.
Mr Jinx 16/02/2018 at 2:55 pm
Odd one, whilst I’m extactic to be away from the ex we’re still married and have a little one. I was in the process of submitting a divorce application based on her adultery once our house sale went through and I had some cash. She’s now contacted and said she’s not happy with the terms and wants to apply for a divorce on the grounds of two years separation. Although I should point out at this stage that we’re still three days short of our first year separated. I suspect that if I argue she’ll become evil about access to my little one and any money we make from the sale of ten house will be swallowed by the solicitors. Im not keen on purjerying myself either, any views?
MrsCArter2013 09/11/2017 at 12:36 am
I've been married to a service man we got married in the Philippines when he move to the states he stop sending spousal support, start living in with his gf and kept the marriage pretending that everything is ok while trying to establish his single life. After a year he file for divorce but lied to the court that he doesnt know my mailing address so what he did is he done it thru newspaper publication while telling me that he had sent the divorce papers. Only to file out that the court has already granted default judgement. Never got the chance to reply to the divorce papers since nothing was mailed. Now I do not know what to do as I dont want to end up paying all his loan he made while he was with his mistress. And the court wont email me either the documents and he is also MIA.
OZ 05/09/2017 at 4:49 pm
Jesse345, eldest 18, youngest 16, they were totally supportive at the start, even wanted to leave their own mother, but she's been emotionally blackmailing them and poisoning everything I do, she even has them thinking I'm turning them against each other. There's no such thing as the perfect husband or father, but i tried damn hard to do that, now after 25 yrs, I've lost my home, my family and my best friend, who is doing nothing short of burying me. I'm broken
Jesse345 Editor 05/09/2017 at 12:57 pm
@OZ - I feel your pain. How old are your daughters? Surely, they understand that you're a good dad. Hang in there and continue to be the good dad. The most important thing is your daughters and nothing will ruin their love for you if you've done right by them
OZ 05/09/2017 at 10:30 am
Thanks Matt, but it doesn't make it any easier. She's moved him into the family home, has turned my girls against me, has been prescribed medication whilst married for an STI, all provided to the court and they agree with her. She's now trying to clean me out, after I have spent 23 yrs working hard for the family and adoring the ground she walked on. She continues to spread lies even to her own parents and our daughters. I accept the marriage is over, but its because of her, but why turn my girls against me and why break me, its not as if we are rolling in money. Her new fella is well to do, his own daughter won't talk to him, but he's making a huge effort to impress my girls. I've been alienated and lost everything, its a nightmare I can't wake up from
Matt Editor 04/09/2017 at 2:58 pm
@OZ - it doesn't really matter in the long run, people give any old reason. Blaming another person is an outdated and outmoded concept and really should be changed. It's about time this system was rewritten.
OZ 02/09/2017 at 3:35 am
My STBEW has lied on her statement of case, I have provided the court with a 4 page letter showing that it was not my behaviour that caused the marriage to fail, but that she was having an affair. The court has found in her favour, I'm disgusted and furious, am I entitled to see what she entered as evidence on sworn affidavit ????
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