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What is Abduction?

Author: Elizabeth Baron BA/BSc, PGDipBVC - Updated: 21 March 2012 |
 
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Child abduction by a parent is rare, but stories have appeared in the news more regularly in recent times. The increase in travel availability, better links with foreign countries and introduction of low cost airlines means that cases where one parent takes a child on holiday and is pursued by the other parent on abduction charges are more common. To avoid any illegal activity and ensure you can relax and enjoy holidays with your child, make sure you understand the law surrounding abduction.

What Does Abduction Mean?

According to the Child Abduction Act 1984:

“…a person connected with a child under the age of 16 commits an offence if he takes or sends a child outside of the United Kingdom without the appropriate consent.”

This means that any situations in which you leave the UK with your child without official consent can be classed as abduction. The amount of consent needed will depend on your circumstances. Your right to take your child abroad will depend on the access you are granted, too.

Can a Child be Abducted Within the UK?

Although the legal systems of the countries within the UK are distinctly different, all matters involving child movement are governed by the same laws. If you move your child within the UK, it cannot be classed as abduction, as long as you have Parental Responsibility. If you decide to move within the UK, the mother can seek for the return of the child through court proceedings.

Fathers with Parental Responsibility

If you have parental responsibility, you have the right to take your child on holiday. It is highly advisable that you seek the agreement of the mother before taking your trip, as it can be classed as abduction if all people with parental responsibility have not given consent. Taking your child out of the country without letting the mother know will also reflect badly on you in future legal proceedings, while aggravating the relationship between you and your child’s mother. If the mother is unavailable to give consent, or if consent is being ‘unreasonably withheld’, then consent does not need to be given.

If you take your child abroad without consent, and the mother wants you to return the child, the chances are you will have do so immediately. The Hague Convention is a group of member countries that allows a person with parental responsibility to apply for a court order for a child’s return. The UK is a member and this allows parents to obtain court orders in many countries.

What if You Don’t Have Parental Responsibility?

If you have not got parental responsibility, you have no right to take the child abroad at all. It can be classed as abduction as soon as you begin travelling with your child and you may face criminal prosecution. If your relationship with the mother is good, and you want to take your child out of the UK, you must be granted permission to do so. Failure to obtain consent is a quick way to upset the mother, which in turn may well cause your child distress, and in the long run may well not be worth it.

Applying to Move Abroad Permanently?

If your aim is to move permanently with your child to a foreign country, and the mother does not agree with the move, you will find many obstacles in your way. To be granted a move you must prove to a court that you have a reasonable and realistic plan which has the best interests of your child’s welfare at heart. Obviously, if your plan involves taking your child to a country where contact with the mother will be limited, the child’s welfare will be called into question.

The law will always try to consider the child’s feeling in these situations, depending on age and understanding. Children over the age of 11 will normally have a deciding say in the relocation, while if a teenager expresses a wish to remain in the UK, it is very rare that a court will demand that they leave with the parent.

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I am a stressed out grandmother worried sick my son in scotland lives with is peruvian wife and two young children five and six months old, his children are uk citizens his wife having been in uk five years now has a british passport he works away on the oil rigs two weeks and is home for three weeks thats his pattern she is showing signs of bizarre behaviour hinting she wants back to her own country for a two month holiday and statingt she hates uk would she need permission to take them away with her or could she do it without my son knowing while he was away at work I suspect she has a plan to do this and her mother in peru is helping her, my son does more for the children than she does hes more paternal than she is maternal thats why I wondered could she just take off in a plane and when she gets to Lima peru where she comes from just walk off with th kids no questions asked I have heard the security isnt good in peru very laxed I would be so grateful if you could get back to me my son doesnt know im making this enquiry in fact hes just gone bacvk on the rigs to work yesterday many thanks for reading this and maybe throwing a bit of advice my way Regards Cathy Benson
cathy - 21 March 2012 @ 5:37 PM
I have split from ex whom I share 2 kids with,(2&4 years old). We weren't married bit I have parental responsibility and want to take my 4 year old on holiday to Spain to see my parents. My ex doesn't like my parents and is refusing to give me consent to take my daughter. Is this reasonable grounds and do I have any rights? I take my daughters 1 day a week and always buy them what they need on top of paying 20% of my salary every month. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
harrs - 13 March 2012 @ 8:36 PM
'Abduction' is a legal fiction because a parent cannot 'abduct' their own child. Although lawyers are keen to say that 'no law is gender bias' all too often the courts are willing to recognise this legal fiction when it applies to fathers and not so keen when mothers are the guilty party.
Kip - 7 December 2011 @ 2:12 PM
My ex wife obtained prohibited steps order against me, I have handed the passports to the court. What if I want go for a holiday with my kids? I just came back from my holiday with my son. When we arrived I found a court order not to remove the kids from mother's care. How I can go for holiday with my kids if she refused.
SAD - 6 December 2011 @ 2:42 PM
I have seperated with my ex and have parental responsibility for my two children. We all live in Wales and my childs mother is planning to move to Scotland with my children. Does she have to have my consent to do this?
caljo - 8 November 2011 @ 12:31 AM
I have parental responsibility for my daughter who is 11yrs old. My parents have a villa in Spain where I wish to take her for a holiday in the summer but her mother is being unreasonable and will not agree to it. I have access with my child and travel 50 miles each way to have her stay with me at weekends I have done this since getting parental responsibility in 2004. Access is going well and my daughter has said many times that she would like to spend time with her grandparents in Spain for a holiday. What can I do as I need her mothers consent for a passport and to take her out of the country for a holiday. I feel she is being deprived of having a great holiday. I work hard but don't have a large income and can't afford excessive solicitors fees. What are my options?
tony - 17 October 2011 @ 9:58 PM
Would like to know where I stand on my rights? My ex partner and mother of our 4yr old son has started a new relationship and is thinkin of moving them down to Wales from Eastbourne, England. I'm against this as it would ruin the relationship between my son and I, please help.
benjo - 30 May 2011 @ 5:36 PM
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