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Below are 23 recent questions from the 'Ask Our Expert' section:

A Separated Dad's Story of How He Got Residency Rights
Two years ago my ex-wife had an affair with a much older man. I was aware that something wasn't right in our relationship, but I guess I was in...
Am I Entitled to Pay Less Child Support Payments?
Your seemingly simple question actually raises a lot of very interesting points. You pay the amount mandated by the Child Support Pensions and...
Can Ex Apply for Kids' Passports Without My Permission?
When you split from your partner it is easy to feel very helpless and as though you lack influence on your children’s lives. When you have gone...
Can I Charge My Ex's New Boyfriend Rent?
There’s a bit of a conundrum here. You own the house jointly. That means you both have equity in it, although how much you each have probably...
Can I Get a Background Check On Ex's New Partner?
It can be difficult when your partner starts dating again and introduces a stranger into the lives of your children. It is a role that you do not...
Can I Stop My Ex Moving Our Children Abroad?
You obviously have what’s called parental responsibility for your children since the divorce. That gives you a position of some strength, although...
Can My Ex Stop Me Taking My Son on Holiday?
It sounds as though the split between you and your ex is still fairly recent so it must be very difficult trying to deal with this situation. Not...
Can My Wife Change My Access Arrangements?
From the sound of things, you and your ex-wife arranged access between yourselves, and you have voluntarily given more than the CSA recommended...
Child is Left in Care of 13 Year Old: Can I Prevent It?
When you have separated from your child’s mother it can be difficult to agree on parenting issues. As the father you have legal responsibilities...
Do I Have to Pay My Wife a Certain Amount?
It sounds as if, in part that, like so many others, you’ve become a victim of the credit crunch. You’ve tried to be very fair to your wife and...
Ex is Changing My Daughter's School: Should I Be Consulted?
When you separate from your partner there is always a tug of war about who can make decisions concerning what. Finding out through your child that...
How Can I Avoid Losing Contact With My Daughter?
There are two separate issues involved here, both custody and maintenance, and together they mean you’ve been denied access to your daughter, which...
How Can I Obtain a Contact Order?
First of all, in order to be eligible for a Contact Order, you must have what’s known as Parental Responsibility, which means either that you’re...
How Do I Ensure CSA Money is Spent on My Child?
When the parents of a child split up, both sides are still responsible for the upbringing of the child until they are 16 or leave full time...
How Do I Find My Children's New Address?
Hello, I’m glad that you find the information on the site useful. Your solicitor is right: if you choose to go through the court it may be a long...
How Do I Make My Ex See What He's Doing to the Kids?
You’re right, this is a tough one. Obviously you’ve tried to work it out between the two of you and by including solicitors. There are no legal...
How to Get to See My Kids and Help Other Separated Dads
As a father you are setting a good example by wanting to fix problems with your ex and be able to see your children regularly. Unfortunately the...
Is My Ex Allowed To Remove Our Son From School to Go on Holiday?
It can be very frustrating when you are separated from your child and their mother makes decisions that you do not agree with. Trying to work...
Is My Ex-Wife in Breach of The Contact Order?
The first thing you should do is seek professional legal advice, but on the face of it, this sounds like a breach of the contact order....
What Age Do Child Maintenance Payments Stop?
Child maintenance payments are put in place to make sure that both parents are paying a fair amount towards the upbringing of their child. This may...
What Can I Do to Help My Daughter?
This is a very delicate situation, and you’re going to have to tread very warily. Your ex wife is apparently still very bitter at you, and...
What Can I do to Stay in My Daughter's Life?
You’re in a very unfortunate situation, and one not to be wished on anyone, since you obviously love your daughter. Your first step should be to...
What Rights do I have if I'm not on the Birth Certificate
Essentially, the fact that your name isn’t on your birth certificate means you have no legal rights over your son, unless his mother allows it....
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