Being Falsely Accused of Domestic Violence

I have not seen my little boy and girl since december 2010. I was with a woman who was a schedule 1 offender, she and social services told me that it was because she attacked a 14year old girl while she was in the same peer group. Cutting a long story short I was told by several different people that what she did was alot more serious than what I was told by social services. When we had our first child we had to attend case conferences as our child was on the at risk register. At around this time I repeatedely asked social services what she had done why we had to go through living with our child on the at risk register. They told me what you know is not far from the truth. That I asked these questions I noticed that social services turned their attention towards me, saying that I'm domestically violent, I'm a risk to children. This was so bad that in 2005 I attempted suicide because I did not expect what was coming from social services although been warned by people ( by the way I would never fall into that trap again ). I eventually contacted my solicitors because they would not take my son off the at risk register because I would not co-operate with them. The real truth was because I noticed that social services do not want to go near mistreated and abused children but instead try and destroy well looked after children ( there is a reason for this ). When my solicitor got involved they called him by phone and said they had no problem with me, subsequently they released my child off the at risk register and disbanded. 2 years later we had another child a girl, we also got married a year previous. A year after my daughter was born we divorced, because I realised I was living in some sort of trance. I was happy attending university, had a new partner and seeing my children every fornight over the weekend and having them school holidays. Another story short, she got herself a new partner and asked me to come and meet him which I did. after that she had me arrested for every crime on this planet, screwed my university course up with the help of corrupt police officers and social services. My daughter told my partner that her mums boyfriend smacks her hard, my partner said that he should not be doing that and that daddy does not even smack you. Her mother launched a verbal assault on my partner through text msgs and phone calls, because of this I decided to report the matter to the police. It took me 2 weeks b4 they came out I gave them all the details text msgs admitting that her partner did smack my daughter. The police passed the case to social services and in response I was taken down the police station 3 months later to answer questions about the same thing I alledged. The case was dropped in return social services put on there files that there is possible sexual touching in there report. I have been trying to have a meeting with them to discuss the matter for 6months now and the manager keeps stalling. My solicitor sent my ex-wife a letter for

I was accused of domestic violence on the 28th of July, 2011. I was found not guilty by a specialist domestic violence court on the 20th of October, 2011.it is now Jan 2012, I have not seen my daughter for 6 months. due to the civil proceedings the other party has brought against me. I also brought civil proceedings againts her, however, the judge feels as the social workers were happy with her everything as fine. I'm apparantly too dangerous to have contact even supervised with my daughter- the fact that I was found NOT GUILTY in a SDVC has no bearing- how bizzarre! messed up system.

Don't worry about the lie's your wife is saying to get you in troble. Remember the fact" that they are weak and devious. You should have kept a closer eye on your wife's association's and stuff she has been reading. I'm in the same boat as you and due in court in Feb 2012. So long as you stay on the right side of it all' you will come out winning. Remember God not only see' buRAt act's at all wrong doing. Be good and watch God' at work.

I am currently in a situation where my ex wife is trying to falsely accuse of domestic violence and get me done for section 18 and 20. Police previously have dropped charges on me twice because there was no evidence! And then she has the nerve to blame one of her inuries that happened months ago on me aswel. Shes obsessed with the police and reporting me only to get a divorce. Her mother instigated the whole thing and its like they both working very hard to set me up. Now they claim they have pictures of bruises on her body from the past which I wasnt aware of?? Am wondering when did this happen? We did split up on and off all the time in the 1 and a half year we were together. So am thinking each time she went to her mums house her mother told her to bruise her self to help her case when she sends me the divorce petition as any domestic evidence will show unreasonable behaviour in the relationship and she will be favoured in court. Her mother really hates me as her mother wanted her daughter to control me and control my money but because I was too smart for that her mother realised she cant swindle me easily. They took £8k of gold jewellery from my family which was a family investment and now denying they dont have it to my solicitor even though the police handed over the gold. So already they been caught lying and now they pushing their luck with false allegations of assault! Av been on bail for like 6 months and its now going to crown court coz she keeps adding more things on the domestic list!! Its so stressfull and I cant think straight. I think she wants me to go crazy. But am a patient person and strong minded. I dont understand how the police and defending solicitors can go this far without thinking how many times she has tried setting me up and they letting her continue with this accusing evil behaviour. The whole case is now going to crown court and I dont mind because I have audio evidence that she lied about previous assaults on me. So hopefully I will get justice for being falsely accused. May god help this evil world. Any views on my Situation?

I met my ex about 8 years ago. Bit surprised when she got pregnant after only 4 mnths 2 getha. When I asked about a family she wouldn't let me move in (she also had a 4 old boy to a married man!) Eventually she let me move in then endured 18 months with a controlling, spiteful, ungrateful woman. I stayed as I adored the boys. After 2 years I was cracking up so moved to a town 3 miles away. Phew! Quite a few of my old m8s lived there so I was ok. They all told me to leave her but for the next year and a half I did everything for her to try to get back to being a proper family. No chance. She got worse. Last summer 2010 she split up with me again for 3 months. We got back and then eventually in October I threw in the towel. The boys have been my rock. I miss them so much I was sobbing last week, I was missing them that much. But I would never go back to their mother. As it's the holidays I'm seeing them more - 4 times last week. I feel lots happier. The point I'm trying to make is don't stay in a toxic relationship for the sake of the kids. It will eat you away. I've only just started to get my old personality back and I feel great. And on top of that my best m8 died mum and older brother, and she gave me no empathy, nothing. Don't stop fighting for your kids. I never will.

Wife recently walked out on my disabled daughter and me. 2 weeks later the local police called and arrested me over allegation made by my wife, of me assaulting her. I was gobsmacked over these false allegations, and I am now on police bail to return to police station at later date.My wife now has the support of the police as a victim of domestic violence. What a joke! And I am left worried sick over the lies made by her. My wife had the privilege of making a statement over a nice cup of tea and biscuits. I had my liberty taken away for several hours D.N.A photographed, slung in a cell and questioned while being taped. Still in a state of shock? So unfair.

Thanks for the info on false accusations, the past two years have been a nightmare for my kids, myself & family due to my ex wifes false allegations and outright lies to the police,her solicitor,family courts, schools, and many others! I have sat back for the sake of the kids to save them further suffering at her hands, she bullied, beat and intimidated them for many years and I had hoped that the truth would be known in time! Although I hadn't realised how sick she really is!.