Do You Know Your Rights as a Father?

Having never planned to be in this position you are probably unsure of exactly where your rights and responsibilities lie. You want to do your best as a father but what rights do you have? And what are your legal responsibilities to uphold? Here are some questions that you may ask to find out exactly where you stand.

Do You Have Parental Responsibility for Your Kids?

If you were married to your partner when your child was born or your name is on the birth certificate then you automatically have parental responsibility. If you are the biological father you can still file for parental responsibility which gives you legal rights and responsibilities for your child.

Can You Make Decisions Concerning Their Upbringing?

With parental responsibility you have the right to be involved in all major decisions in your child life. This can be anything that significantly affects their upbringing such as education, medical treatment or religion.

Who Decides on Everyday Things?

Everyday decisions are left up to the parent who has residence of the children. Generally the mother is given residence unless you or the courts decide differently. This means that she does not have to consult you about day to day decisions.

Do You Have to Pay Child Support?

As a parent you are legally bound to pay child support. The amount that you pay is worked out by the child support agency and will depend on a number of things including how much you earn and how you have split custody.

What Visitation Rights do You Have?

You may decide to organise your visitation independently with your ex and this is fine as long as you are both happy with the arrangement. If not then you will need to apply for a contact order and be assessed to determine what visitation you are given.

Can Your Ex Take Your Children Out of the Country?

If your ex has residence of your children then she can take them out of the country for up to one month without your permission. If she wants to take them for longer or move abroad permanently then she will need your consent. If you have serious concerns about her taking them out of the country then you can apply for an order to stop it.

When Does Parental Responsibility End?

Your parental responsibility and child support continues until your child leaves school or further education which can be as young as 16 or finish when they are 19 and at university.

Finding out a about your rights and responsibilities as a father is important so that you know what you are entitled to and what you need to do. If you can keep relations civil and handle the details with your ex then this can be better but if not then you will have to go through the legal system to clarify things. Your ex has no right to stop you seeing your children and with a little bit of compromise and willingness you can both come to an agreement that is best for your children.

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