Separated Dads Wristband and Car Sticker

Hi, I sent a SAE on Friday for some wristbands and car stickers. Do you still have them? How long does it take to receive them. Thanks for all the good advice.

Well cant beliexe i found a cite like this . I had full custody of my three daughters after a two year custody battle full of false allegations to where i was constantly having to prove my innocense. The judge in that parenti g plan addressed the issue of false allegations and wrote in the parenting plan that if they continued there woulf be severe consequences.oh and how right he was. The false allegations never stopped. I was accused by the ex of assaulting my 15 yr old on oct1 2014 knowing that what actually caused a small scratch on my daughters cheek was a mere accident. Didnt matter she called police and cps. I was arressted without even given a. Hance to explain and of course cps took all 3 girls and placed them with mom and concluded "founded"findings of abuse. The ex filed a pet to modify parenting plan in family court. After 24 days in jail 9 weeks of home monitoring and no visitation with my daughters the criminal court and a jury found after only 25 minutes of deliberating that i was not guilty and was completely exhonerated. I immediately ran from courthouse to cps office in tacoma, wa and spoke with area administrator requesting the founded findings of abuse be reversed as i now had my proof that i was innocent. The answer of course was sorry you missed your deadline to have an appeal of my decision and you will have to live with the label of chid abuser the rest of your life. I inquired about placement back with me as per parenting plan and told nor our problem now take it up in family court. I asked about the report my 9 yr old made to a pediatrician that rported to cps of abuse by the mother when she had been drinking alcohol and left bruises on my nine year old when she grabbed her yelling at her to stop crying. The 9 yr old told the pediatrician she was crying cause she missed daddy. The cps adminstrator looked at me when asked about that report and said there has been no such report mr dewitt and we are tired of your case,you just dont know what your doing do you you dont realize that cps is a very dangerous entity do you. She then said if you knew about a report that was supposedly made on jan 19 and this is now mar 18 she says that to me sounds like your opening another case for yourself . Im like what are you saying? She says if you had knowledge of an assault on your child since jan 19 and it is now mar 18 why are you just now following up on it? She says sounds like neglect on your part mr dewitt see how dangerous we can be? Are you sure you want to push your case any further. Totally dismayed and angty i left and figured no problem they can f---- off and i will handle it in family court . Well immediately following hearing of the not guilty verdict the ex ran down to family court and during an ex parte obtained a no contact order restraining me from kids alleging that i sent emotionally abusing texts to my 12 yr old daughter. I was served with that apr 3 ,2015. I had once again to prove my innocense again. So on apr 30 i

@DaddynoDrama - I am glad things have worked out well for you, it makes such a difference when access can run smoothly. Of course there will always be niggles, but such is life and if you can get through with as few as possible then that is the best situation any father can wish for. Best of luck.

Just found this site and I think it is great.. After 9 years together my Ex met someone else and moved out taking my son who was 3 at the time with her.I felt as if my whole world had come crashing down on me, but I knew I had to be strong for my son.I am one of the lucky fathers on here as I go and collect my son every other weekend and he stays with me and during term times.I wanted him to know that his bedroom was still his bedroom and he was a lucky boy because he had 2 houses and bedrooms. I do try to keep how I really feel out of the equation and be as supportive to my Ex as possible and we communicate fully regarding our son. I know when he's done well at school, been naughty when he's not well as even at 4 years old he does try to get his own way with us telling me he's allowed something that I know he isn’t. I know things may not always go as smooth as they have been the Ex and I but my son and I are very close and he loves to come and stay and see my side of the family. Furthers do get a bad press, the majority of us are hard working loving fathers who just want to have a equal share in our children’s lives

Thanks for the knowledge on letter writing to Doctors and Schools. Great stuff..

Thanks I now have one and have signed up to your Facebook page which at least now makes me feel I'm not alone in trying to gain access to my kids.

Hi there, Thanks for the valuable post . It's really worth reading article. I Like Dads Wristband and Car Sticker.

My husband had a fling which resulted in a child. We have remained together and love each other more than ever. He sees his child 4 times a week but she will not allow the child to be around me. It's tearing us apart as he won't stand up to her and feels she holds all the cards when she is merely using her child as a weapon to hurt us.

Hi Do you have a Paypal account that I can use to send money for a sticker/wrist band please?

  I am looking for legal advice to come to an agreement with my ex-partner regarding access to our son (who is aged 5). She has stopped me accessing my son for the last 6 months and I wish to come to a legal settlement to agree fair access.   I also want to come to an agreement with my ex-partner regarding my property and possessions. I no longer live with my ex-partner but she still has a lot of my property and belongings which I don’t have access to.   I also want to discuss the ways how I can protect myself against negative comments against my name which have been appearing on social media sites recently.

Hi, I'm still kind of in the begining stages of breaking free from being the absent dad, slowly but surely I can my hearts deepest hidden desire will manifest to reality, I just need to know where I can find the most quickest dad friendly, support group in cape town, need some advice pls

Going through the first stage of break up not seen my 7 month son now for 3 weeks it killing me

Hi' I'm recently divorced. My Ex wants to take our daughter abroad for a holiday. We only got divorced in Dec 2012. What should I do?????????

We deal with an exwife that can drive us over our heads,I realy can’t wait til my husband daughter turns 18, I don’t think that my husband’s ex wife has any intentions either, well she has intentions of getting my husband’s money, to spend it on her whatever …she always mention me as a child pride or telling my husband Now get back to the kindergarten at home!! and calling my husband bad names , cause i am actually younger than her .. and as a father and me as a step mother we trying to watch his daughter cause she live now in London with her mother .. and we are so worried about the way that the girl is growing up. We see all the pictures of her and the posts / comments being made - which are NOT appropriate for a 13 year old girl. I don’t give a damn if that’s the way that children are raised in the UK, that does not mean that the mother should allow her daughter to become like them. It seems to me that she have lost control already, and she is only 13! The way she dresses and cakes-on the makeup is not appropriate - she is 13!!!! I have no doubt that when other parents see the pictures posted by the girl, showing off her body, licking a pornographic magazine and of her kissing another girl on FB and Twitter, they wonder where the hell are this child’s parents???? What do you suppose the boys in her school think of her? and when my husband sent to his ex wife warning her as a father to his child thats was her answer : .. Go ahead attack me… Your words have no effect on me anymore… FYI your daughter has a very good dress sense. A lot of the pictures especially the recent ones with dark red lipstick and make up was actually from a dress up party where she went as a 40’s pin up model it was a fancy dress party! Not getting into a back n foreword debate or argument with you, been down this road tooooo many times and bored of it now.. Contents of your email have been noted. Now get back to the kindergarten at home!! & I dont give a f@k about your wife ( Now shes starting to talk about me ) and she can replay five times if my husband send one msg !! and thats the second answer from the ex wife Firstly, it is very sad that you and your wife feel the need to snoop around my daughter social networking profiles aswell as those of her friends.. regardless of what you think, she is a lovely 13 year old girl who is adored by her friends, she is very well liked and most definately respected. All teenagers go through very different phases and joke around when out together.. I have already explained about the picture you refferred to although I dont know why I bothered as you jump to conclusions in any event… to set the record straight, it was not a PORNO as you say, it was a mens magazine with a naked girl on the front - porn - you should know the difference!! The picture was actually taken in a cafe whilst a group of girls were all out. &… yes ONLY 13 !!! I am quite aware of that as I gave birth to her and have spent every day of her life beside

My daughter turned 19 two weeks ago so I phoned child support to ask why I ain't received a letter saying payments have now stopped, they told me new legislation comes into force 10th December where child support can stay until the child reaches 20.can anyone tell me if this is truemany thanks

Started going through the painful process of fight for the kids - silly thing is I live right next door to the kids. I am allowed 2 days 1 night with the kids. The Ex is unwilling to allow me to gain more access to them and allow me to have them during school holidays and even take them to school on a regular basis. How can this be. the Law needs to be changed.

I'm one of the lucky one I get to have my kids 15 days a month witch I love, what I find hard is if me and my kids mum have a fight she still trys and stops me from seeing them, it also makes me laugh that I pay for all my kids stuff at my house, the swimming lesson and my boys hair cuts buT when I ask if I can share sum of The tax credits to help out its a no, she cons the system by having her boyfriend stay at her house 10 nights out of 14 and stays at his for 4 nights, so she gets full benefits and pays for no after clubs or stuff, but at least her new wardrobe looks good. But saying she still is a good mum, I just feel dads need more help as well its just as hard for us if not more so, since we r normally the one who have to leave the house and say bye to the kids.

Im a a seperated woman, my 2 children lived with me and then when one of them kept getting into trouble, the police came looking for him and I handed him over to the police. my ex went to pick him up, as I asked him to because he had not dealt with either of the kids for years so I thought it would be good for him to do something. it ended up with my child coming home, packing a bag and moving out he was 13 - I wasnt allowed to stop him, the police wouldnt get involved. then my ex field for child support, he earns 2.5 times my take home pay. now 2 years on my other chilld is 19, he has never seen her or sent her anything for xmas or birthdays. on her birthday he sent me a text to say he isnt paying for her anymore. she has 1 more year to do at college, but now I have to find money to pay for this. and then he is now suing me vis csa for money for my other child that is with him. How am I meant to pay for the child I have let alone the child living with him. he is an american citizen living here. if I pay him for the other child, then I am going to lose my house that I live in with my other child. I have NEVER screwed him for money or anything. I just think csa is being unfair at making me homelss to pay him money that he really doesnt need. He takes home £3000 a monthc ompared to my £1200. How do I stop from losing my home?

The car stickers are self explanatary the wristbands are not! they're just a coloured band with cut-out words you can't see. They should be printed in white so can be easily read!

My name is not on my daughters BC Haven't seen her for so long. The last time I had her she could only hold her head up. About a month a go I saw a picture of her standing on her own with long blonde hair! The mother has moved address and changed numbers. This website has helped me a lot just knowing I'm not the only one! Thank you x

I need help and advice on getting access to see my daughter. I have only just found out that im a father of a 2yr old girl and the mother is being very difficault on agreeing to certain situations. I would like to be introduced as her father but she refuses as she has already called another man dad but now he has left her mother, the mother has told her her father is dead so the mother said I can be called by my real name!! im confused.

The law needs 2 change! The fathers who care about the important things which are their children seem 2 b treated like those who dont care at all! All fathers should help in all aspects of a childs upbringing but should also have equal rights for access if fit to do so at the end of the day its the childs welfare thats the most important

Can some body help me I have recently seperated from my partner we have two children and I'm not on there birth certificates how do I go about putting my name on them my ex wouldn't agree to doing it, do I have any rights at all? thanks

Hi to everyone, I have just found this site and im hoping it can help me in my situation, its good to know there are people out there to help us dads,Thank you.

Great to see this much-needed resource getting increased attention. Having been married and susequently divorced outside my country of origin, I've returned to my home country to improve financial prospects and increase access to my amazing young children. With my ex using my lack of finances to make access difficult, I'm keen to hear from other separated dads who are, or who have been, in this situation. Thank you and keep up the great work!

On reading through your site I am impressed with the work you do for separated dads like myself,but I am bewildered as to seeing one of your stickers on a vehicle I know to which the separated father in question has reduced his access to his two boys from having them overnight every other weekend and over night on a Tuesday, by taking there mother to court with a family solicitor thet incourages parents to keep as much contact with children. However this father in question with the help of his solucitor got his a contact order so as to only see his 2 boys ( one of 6 the other 10) for 6hours every other Saturday from 10am till 1600hrs !!! I think this so could father is making a mockery of yourselves and other respectfull fathers by doing what he has done...one last thing for the record the mother of the children at no point stopped or tried to stop any contact whatsoever...and the judge couldn't believe what the father was doing but the law can't make him???

I have only just come across your site and I only wish that it came up years ago (2007) as I have been in constant battle for to see my son. I am going to be sending you a donation of one of the above asap and will keep an eye on your site and hopefully add one or two storys etc. So keep up the effort and good luck to all who are fighting for their right like me.

Hi there. You could always put these on eBay for a fixed price and take payment via PayPal that way ...

Thank you for your positive feedback on this site. It's always good to hear! I'm afraid we can't accept PayPal payments for the stickers and wristbands at this time. If this does change, however, we will update the site.

Is there no way you could use PayPal to collect for the wristbands & stickers. If you did that, you could add a little for post/packing and people could then order online... Really appreciate the work that you do, have done and continue to do. I know that it has helped me. Sometimes even if you already know what you read, it helps to know that someone else has thought that it might be good to write about it too. Thank you so much. :o)