Government to Scrap Presumption of Parental Involvement
14th October 2025This is a big one. The government announced in October 2025 that it intends to repeal the presumption of parental involvement from the Children Act 1989. In plain English, this means that family courts will no longer start from the position that it is in a child's best interests to have both parents involved in their life. Instead, each case will be assessed purely on its own merits, with child safety as the primary concern.
If you're concerned about how this legal change might affect your situation, you can check your current position using our free Rights Checker.
The change follows a long campaign by Claire Throssell, whose sons Jack and Paul were tragically killed by their abusive father during a contact visit in 2014. Claire argued that the presumption of parental involvement was being used to force contact in situations where children were at risk. Her courage in sharing her story has been instrumental in bringing this change about, and we have enormous respect for what she has been through.
However, at Separated Dads we do have concerns about what this means for the thousands of good, loving fathers who are already struggling to maintain a relationship with their children after separation. The presumption of parental involvement was introduced in 2014 specifically to address the problem of one parent being shut out of a child's life. Without it, there is a real risk that fathers who pose no threat whatsoever to their children will find it even harder to secure contact orders through the courts.
The repeal is included in the Courts and Tribunals Bill, which was introduced in February 2026. It has not yet become law, but it is moving through Parliament. If you are currently going through the family court system, or think you may need to in the future, we would strongly urge you to seek legal advice now. Understanding your rights and parental responsibility status is more important than ever.
We will continue to follow this closely and update you as the bill progresses. Whatever happens in legislation, never forget that your relationship with your child matters.
£17 Million for Child Focused Courts Rollout
12th March 2026Justice Secretary David Lammy has announced £17 million in funding for 2026/27 to roll out the child focused court model to eight more areas across England. This model, previously known as the Private Law Pathfinder, is designed to make family court proceedings faster, less adversarial and more focused on the needs of children rather than the arguments between parents.
The results from the pilot areas have been encouraging. Cases are being resolved up to seven and a half months faster than under the traditional system, which is a huge improvement for families who have been stuck in limbo waiting for a court to make a decision about their children. Cafcass is also getting additional social work capacity as part of the rollout, which should mean that reports are completed more quickly and with more thorough assessments.
At Separated Dads we welcome anything that speeds up the family court process. We have heard from too many dads over the years who have waited months, sometimes over a year, for their case to be resolved. That is months of a child's life where the relationship with their father is on hold, and that time can never be recovered.
Our concern, as always, is whether the system works as well for fathers as it does for mothers. The child focused model places a strong emphasis on early resolution and mediation, which is positive, but it also relies heavily on Cafcass assessments. If those assessments are not balanced and thorough, the faster process could simply mean that unfair outcomes are reached more quickly. We would encourage any dad going through this system to engage fully with the process, attend all appointments, and keep detailed records. If you are unsure how the process works, our guide to family court is a good starting point.
£17 million is a significant investment, but whether it is enough to transform a system that has been underfunded for years remains to be seen.

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18th March 2026Cafcass, the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service, has signalled a significant shift in its approach to contact cases. The organisation appears to be moving away from the long held principle that contact with both parents should happen at all costs, towards a more cautious position where the safety of the child takes priority over maintaining a relationship with both parents.
From a child safety perspective, this is understandable. There are cases where contact with a parent is genuinely harmful, and the system must protect children in those situations. Nobody at Separated Dads would argue otherwise. However, we are concerned about the practical impact this shift will have on the many thousands of fathers who are loving, safe parents but who are being denied contact by a hostile ex partner.
The risk is that a more cautious Cafcass will be quicker to recommend reduced or supervised contact based on allegations alone, before those allegations have been properly investigated. We have heard from too many dads who have faced false accusations as a tactic to prevent contact, and a system that is now more inclined to err on the side of caution could make this problem worse.
If you are going through the system right now, our advice is clear. Document everything. Keep a record of every communication with your ex, every attempt to see your children, every cancellation and every refusal. Engage with mediation wherever possible and show the court that you are child focused. When you attend Cafcass meetings, be calm, be reasonable, and focus entirely on what is best for your children. The dads who do best in the family court are those who can demonstrate that every decision they make is driven by the needs of their child, not by conflict with their ex.
This is a challenging time for separated fathers, but staying informed and being prepared gives you the best chance of a good outcome for you and your children.
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What the Family Court Changes Mean for You
25th March 2026There has been a lot of change in the family court system recently and if you are a dad currently going through separation or trying to maintain contact with your children, it can feel overwhelming. Here is a practical summary of where things stand and what you can do.
The government is repealing the presumption of parental involvement from the Children Act 1989 through the Courts and Tribunals Bill. This means courts will no longer automatically assume that both parents should be involved in a child's life. At the same time, the child focused court model is being rolled out more widely, aiming to resolve cases faster with less conflict. Cafcass is also taking a more cautious approach to contact, prioritising child safety over the principle that contact should happen at all costs. Together, these changes mean that it is more important than ever for fathers to be proactive, prepared and informed.
If you are an unmarried father, the single most important thing you can do right now is make sure you have parental responsibility. If you are named on your child's birth certificate (which has been automatic for births registered after December 2003), you already have it. If not, you need to obtain it either through a formal agreement with the mother or through the court. Without parental responsibility, you have very limited legal standing when it comes to decisions about your child.
If you need to apply to court for a Child Arrangements Order, the form you need is a C100, and the current court fee is £232. You may be eligible for help with fees if you are on a low income or receiving benefits. Before you can apply to court, you will usually need to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, and the government's family mediation voucher scheme can help cover the cost of mediation sessions if you want to try resolving things without going to court. You do not need a solicitor to go to court. Many dads represent themselves successfully, and you can also take a McKenzie Friend with you for support and guidance in the courtroom.
Whatever stage you are at, do not give up. The system is not perfect, and these changes bring new challenges, but thousands of dads have successfully navigated the family courts and secured meaningful time with their children. Stay focused on your child, keep records of everything, engage with the process, and seek advice when you need it. Our guides to court are a good place to start if you are preparing for your first hearing.
Child Maintenance Rates for 2025/26
7th April 2025A quick update on child maintenance rates for the 2025/26 tax year. The basic rates used by the Child Maintenance Service remain the same as the previous year. If you are a non resident parent, the standard rates based on your gross weekly income are: 12% for one child, 16% for two children, and 19% for three or more children.
If your child stays overnight with you, this can reduce the amount you pay. One night a week on average reduces the rate by one seventh, two nights reduces it by two sevenths, and three or more nights means you are treated as sharing care equally. It is important that you inform the CMS of your overnight arrangements, because if you do not, they will estimate that your child stays with you just one night a week.
If your gross weekly income is below £200, a reduced rate applies, and if it is below £100 or you are on certain benefits, you may only pay a flat rate of £7 per week. For those earning above £800 per week gross, an additional rate of 9%, 12% or 15% applies on income between £800 and £3,000 per week.
For a clearer picture of what you are likely to pay, check out our child maintenance guide which breaks down exactly how the calculations work and what your money should be going towards.
Your feelings are completely valid, and it's understandable that you want to protect your daughter and share the truth with her when she's older. Many parents struggle with similar decisions about what to share and when.
While false accusations in custody battles are deeply wrong and harmful, please consider speaking with a counselor who specializes in co-parenting after abuse. They can help you process these experiences and guide you on how to discuss these issues with your daughter in a way that protects her wellbeing while honoring your truth.
Your daughter is fortunate to have a mother who fought so hard to protect her.
My ex narc father of my child tried to do this and after many hundreds of thousands in legal fees the judge saw through the alienation false accusation thankfully. I hope that those that falsely accuse mothers of parental alienation have justice delivered to them by a higher power then the courts. The courts should lock up all those men who have such false allegations made against mothers. Just remember that falsely accusing mothers of such things does mean that mothers have every right to not to want to even spit in your direction. It is amazing how men who abuse women would use such tactics and these websites teach them to use such tactics mean that there is a greater animosity towards them. As soon as my child is 18 I will show her what her dad wanted-lets see how that helps him with his relationship with his child. Men such as my ex disgust me with what they will do.
My son left school last year. We have been estranged since he was 10 years old, but I have kept up to date with his education via the school app and received all of the usual school emails that all parents are sent. Despite it being a bit of a fight with the school, I received his exam results last year too.
There is no contact with his mother and so I have no idea what he did after leaving school. I do think he has continued to further his education but, I am left with no other option but to submit a SARS request to the county council asking where he was being educated - nothing else.
There are no court orders and I supplied all of the required documents, including a copy of his birth certificate. This was on the 4th of November 2022 and was accepted by the council.
The council dithered for weeks and apologised when I chased them up, finally telling me it was with their legal department.
I got so fed up with their procrastinating, that I made a complaint to the Information Commissioners Office, who in turn wrote to the council and suggested they resolved the request.
Yesterday evening I received the result. The council is refusing to provide me with the information "This is due to the fact you are requesting data in relation to a child over 12, and we require written consent from your child advising that consent has been given for you to request data on their behalf"
I think this is nonsense, but not really sure where or what to do now. I have asked them to provide the policy or law that they're using to support this stance.
I am hoping someone has already been here and can advise or comment.
The social say we are not open to them so the decision is mine to make, however the other kids don't see her unsupervised outside of contact centres so why should mine, however she keeps asking and I find it hard to answer the questions.
I have offered her to see our child at mine or in my local area etc but she always declines, it seems she wants to cross the bridge before it's built.
Anyone any advice or been in the same situation ?
I can't afford solicitors etc and I am not sure I want to go down that route as it rarely works and the baby is too young to be away from mum, I just want to see her. I have tried ringing texting emailing her but no joy. Have stated i am happy with any contact she is comfortable with but no joy. Has she the right to prevent contact and the right to not name me on birth certificant??? I have no idea of what to do. I want to play an equal part in her life and give my all to her. It is about what you give a child not what you get out of it. I feel contact orders don't workas they caneasily be breeched. I feel in lightof her mental state and pass history of stopping contact a Joint residency would be best so I the right to equal parenting and would be able to have greater access as she grows up so can ensure she is safe... Could also help the mother more who obviously is struggling emotionally
I am trying to reestablish contact with my 10 yr old son.. It has been 6yrs since I last saw him... I had a contact order, parental responsibility and regular fortnightly contact until 2 months before his 4th birthday...
My ex never wanted me to have contact with my son and from the day he was born did everything in her power to prevent me seeing him and building a relationship with him..
I took her into court and CAFCASS was involved, to begin with I was happy with this, as after the initial interview with them the CAFCASS report stated that my ex was unreasonable, unstable, refused to even consider allowing me contact with no grounds to do so, and was refusing contact out of spite... It also stated that I, myself was a good father, responsible and loving, always putting my son first..
Due to this report I was awarded a contact order giving me 2 days during the week and every other Saturday.. I was over the moon...
Everything went well from then on, that is until Ms Eileen Ford (CAFCASS Family Liaison Officer) got involved...
My son was almost 2 by then... During my first meeting with her she informed me of how upset the court decision had made my ex, that although she had accepted the fact I must have contact with my son, the amount of contact I had been awarded was causing her deep emotional issues...
Would I agree to reduce the contact to just the fortnightly visit on the Saturday for a period until my ex got her head around it...
I had no hostility or bad feelings towards my ex and still cared deeply for her, so I agreed to this in the hope my ex would come around...
This did not happen and till the day my contact was stopped this was all the contact I had with my son...
The last time I saw my son was 2 months before his 4th birthday, I had driven 230 miles from Gt Yarmouth to Blackheath for 9am to collect him..
I was met at the door by my ex's mother, she said that my son wasn't ready to leave, and would I mind coming in for a few minutes as they needed to talk to me...
I was ushered into their lounge where I discovered Ms Eileen Ford sitting in the arm chair next to my ex..
I was then accused of being in a stolen car, the car not being in my name and being uninsured... I denied this, told them that the car WAS mine that it was registered in MY name and insured by Me...
I was called a LIAR, by both my ex, her mother and Ms Eileen Ford...!
I was told by Ms Eileen Ford that contact arrangements HAD to be stopped until I proved the legality of my car, that this was to put my EX and her MOTHER at ease...!
I asked if I could still take my son swimming using public transport (10mins on the bus from outside my ex's home) and leave my car where it was... To this Ms Ford said No..!
I asked if I could take him to the park across the road for a couple of hours, again Ms Ford and my Ex said No, that until my car paperwork was seen contact would NOT go ahead.. This was because they did not believe the car
My eldest child's behaviour has become increasingly difficult the last year or so and I was putting it down to hormone changes and starting at High School so was experiencing a lot of change.
My eldest son, 12, won't accept my new partner and has even cited him as the reason why he has decided to live with his dad full time now.
I let him go thinking he'd be back within a week however 6months have past and he seems happier with his dad.
On top of this he has stopped all contact with me. It's extremely upsetting and hurtful and I don't know what to do?
I should mention that my ex left us for his best friends wife and they are still together now albeit not living in same house. He is a very controlling man and appears to be enjoying the hurt this is causing me, albeit I'm trying not to let them see how much it is affecting me.
Today I heard from my youngest son that my eldest son is starting at a new school next week. This is news to me and I really would appreciate any advice on how to proceed.
Many thanks in advance...
I pick up our two children from school on a Thursday and they are with me until Saturday evening (sometimes until Sunday) I also see them on a Tuesday evening for a couple of hours while the ex goes to the gym. My relationship with the ex is fairly amicable, however whenever I stand up to her or she doesn't like what I say she threatens to not let me have the kids. She has just moved the children's schools and informed me via text message 2 days before they finished their old school!
I always seem to back down, as I do not want the children to witness any heated arguments. Any advice or help would be most welcome!
I'm just wondering what the difference (if any) is between access, visitation and contact. More specifically I am wondering if there is any agreement/order that could be made whereby the mother brings the child to the father (and his family) even if only once a month.
I live quite far away from the mother and my child and have been traveling three hours every week for the past six months. My child has only been here to see my family twice in that time. Which to me seems very unfair so I would like to know if there was some way that the mother could be bound to bring my child here at least once a month. To me it seems reasonable but she disagrees and basically says I have to do whatever she wants because she is the mother.
Or if she could be made to allow me to have my child overnight at the weekends, that would be reasonable too, even if I had to go and collect her and take her back.
Also I am not on the birth certificate even though I am the father. The whole thing stresses me out a lot and I do have negative thoughts sometimes, as you can imagine. Such as not seeing my child to avoid the stress. I would (probably) never do that though but it upsets me to have these thoughts, even if they are only fleeting. And that's on top of the upset I've already got with this situation.
Thanks
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