Guide to Court 1: 1st Hearing; Court Forms and Statement

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Guide to Court 1: 1st Hearing; Court Forms and Statement

Understanding the court process

Most parents would rather sort out arrangements for their children without involving the courts. But when agreement is not possible, making a court application may be the only way forward.

Before you apply, the court will usually expect you to have attended a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). Exemptions exist for situations involving domestic abuse, child protection concerns, urgency, or where the other parent cannot be contacted. The full list of exemptions is set out in the C100 application form.

Family court applications for child arrangements begin with a First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA). This is the standard first hearing in private law children cases. At this hearing, a judge or magistrate will try to help both parties reach agreement. If that is not possible, the case moves to further hearings.

Applications can be made with notice, meaning the other parent receives the paperwork in advance. In urgent situations, you may apply without notice, but the court will only grant this where there is a genuine risk of harm or where delay would cause serious problems. You will need to explain in your application why the matter is urgent and provide supporting evidence where possible.

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Types of orders available

The courts can make several types of order under the Children Act 1989:

  • Child arrangements order: covers who a child lives with and when they spend time with each parent
  • Prohibited steps order: stops someone taking a specific action, such as removing a child from the country
  • Specific issue order: settles a particular dispute, such as which school a child should attend

Many fathers applying to court will be seeking a child arrangements order. This single order replaced the old residence and contact orders in 2014.

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Completing the court forms

The main form for child arrangements is the C100. You can download it from GOV.UK or collect a copy from your local Family Court. The form asks for details about you, the other parent, and your children. It also asks what orders you are seeking and why. The MIAM confirmation section is now included within the C100 itself, so a separate FM1 form is no longer required.

Be factual when filling in the forms and avoid emotional language. The court is interested in facts, not opinions about the other parent's character. Ensure clarity if handwriting forms.

There is a court fee to submit your application. The current fee can be found on GOV.UK. You may be able to apply for help with fees if you are on a low income or receiving certain benefits.

Once you submit your forms, the court will send copies to the other parent along with a date for the first hearing. Cafcass will be notified and a Cafcass officer will contact both parents before the hearing to carry out safeguarding checks. These checks are standard and involve looking at police and local authority records. The Cafcass officer may also speak to you by telephone to gather initial information about your concerns and the child's circumstances.

Writing your statement

You will usually need to prepare a written statement setting out your position. Judges have limited reading time, so a focused and factual account will carry more weight than lengthy complaints.

Structure your statement in a logical order. Start with brief background about your relationship and when you separated. Then explain the current arrangements for the children and what problems have arisen. Finally, set out what you are asking the court to order.

Avoid personal attacks on the other parent. The court's primary concern is the children's welfare, although relevant conduct may be considered where it affects the children. Stick to what matters for the decisions the court needs to make.

Include dates and specific examples where you can. If contact has been refused, note when this happened. If there are concerns about the children's welfare, explain them clearly.

Your statement should be signed with a statement of truth confirming the contents are accurate to the best of your knowledge. Check the court's guidance on format and length, as page limits often apply. The court will set deadlines for when statements must be filed.

If you are representing yourself, consider seeking legal advice before your hearing. Some solicitors offer fixed fee consultations, and you may be eligible for legal aid if your case involves domestic abuse or you are on a low income. Free guidance is available from the Personal Support Unit, which operates in many court buildings, and from Citizens Advice. Law centres and legal clinics run by some universities also offer support. GOV.UK provides guidance specifically for litigants in person in family proceedings.

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Chris 15/11/2019 at 6:07 pm
@loz.so this it for me been (good )to learn about (fathers rights) .but I have no use for them in (reality 10 years to late for me ).but it’s always good to learn new things .(might put my mind to something else now that I can achieve).
Chris 15/11/2019 at 5:35 pm
@loz.i feel with the 10 years off no contact is to long for any legal action now .so all I can do is wish them well in life .I have (politely )ask for (my surname) to be removed from( all legal documents off the child never got a reply but I hope they do ) as I feel with the time frame there is no need for the child to be using it and would be (a lot smarter) to go under her (mothers name or partners name ).and keep the (no contact rule) in place it’s best for everyone .then everyone can live a (peaceful life away from fights that will never be resolved .
Chris 15/11/2019 at 4:54 pm
@loz.i won’t to be going to (court for visitation) because the child is (15 ).but with the (knowledge )I have now about my rights .i would advise fathers out there to (go for it ).i didn’t know about my rights years ago plus I was in a lot off trouble (orders).so I (stay clear well clear )i don’t have any (contact or will ever contact them) .they have there life I have mine. that’s the way I see it now .so i am one off those fathers that don’t see there kids but there are (millions off us and it’s the end off the world) .she is a good mother plus it don’t matter anymore the child is growen up with her own life .(not much I can do about that now ).but if ever have another child I would know what to do get a (solicitor).
Loz 14/11/2019 at 8:12 pm
Do you require solicitor representation for a prohibited steps order
Janey 10/10/2019 at 1:02 pm
Hi I been I had two very unfair court hearing and both my children were taken off me 6 years ago.i recently went to court for more access.cafcass worker was same one I had 6 years ago and even told me to shut up even though I wasn't speaking.my daughters dad is a compulsive liar and lies through his teeth about me.reason I had my children taken off me was because I was diagnosed with a personality disorder.anything I said I was accused of losing.i was the only one telling the truth.im asking if there is someone high up I can tell as it's total discrimination and the dad got away Scot free from compulsive luring.
Nx 31/07/2019 at 2:34 pm
How to start family (children) matter in high court? What form is required? Application to list matter in family court is being rejected again and again by circuit judge.
Don't want to go there again. Want to make application in high court family division .
Appeal court also did not consider the application against circuit judge.
Sharon 05/06/2019 at 1:59 pm
Hi. I was with my partner for 8/9 years it was a volatile relationship he was very controlling and abusive police have been involved and he has been arrested and released without charge. We have two children together. We seperated and tried to reconcile but he is not willing to put the family first he is very angry and cannot leave the past behind, he won't take responsibility for any of his actions and he always blames others for his mistakes. He wouldn't accept help when we reconciled and he still continued to sit on his phone continuously throughout the day/night which is one of the major issues in the relationship in the first place due to him being unfaithful in past and sleeping with a prostitute and sending pictures of his privates to people. He blames me for this and says I drove him to it. I lost my mum and dad and whilst they were very ill and dying he was on dating websites. I have 4 children and my previous ex father of my eldest two has constantly caused trouble from day one and its still going through court now 12 years later. Relationships are hard, daily life is hard and loosing both parents did cause me extreme anxiety and depression which I am seeking help for through my doctors..I personally think that no matter how somone treats you if you don't want to be with them then don't but don't get cheating on them behind their back, the grass is not always greener on the other side. I am a good kind loyal person, yes I get cross, yes I tell my children off and yes I struggle with life sometimes but I have always been a good partner supportive caring and kind.
We recently split again due to his lack of change and commitment and I feel that his not willing to better ourselves as a family and wants to live on benefits. He says he is dying although his heart echocardiogram came back find his now having ct scans for copd which he thinks he now has. He is always diagnosing himself with something off the internet and when he mentions this to the doctors and has tests they tell him not to read into things and test results are all normal. He says he is dying and talks about going abroad for assisted suicide as he cannot live like this anymore I have all this in emails. He says I am a bad mother and that I have abused and controlled him for the whole time we were in a relationship together. We have a lot of outstanding debts which I have asked him to split but he refuses even though I have said I'll go to a small claims court.
Anyway we have split again and now he lives quite away from me and the children. I have offered him 1 phone a week on a Friday and I have also enquired about two contact centres which can facilitate contact for him quite quickly. I have set the ball rolling so to speak but he is refusing this contact centre and won't go to one. What can I do now any advice please
Saz 15/05/2019 at 5:58 pm
Hi my partner has had his 1st prohibited steps hearing this week due to his ex putting this in, can he put in for contact order whilst this is ongoing
Lee 22/03/2019 at 4:23 pm
hi i was supposed to be attending a final resolution hearing on the 7th of may at my local family court, where the rest of the case has all been dealt with, today i received a phone call from cafcass, asking me to meet them in London, for an interview, and then this afternoon i received an email from cafcass telling me the final resolution hearing is now on the 22nd of may and has been moved to southend family court, this is the first i heard of anything even regarding an extension, or a potential change of hearing, is this legal? and why would they change it to the other end of the country?
M277066 19/02/2019 at 10:36 pm
I’m looking for advice for my partner. Since him and his ex split my partner has always had his child every weekend fri-sun and then has him at his ex’s house 2/3 nights a week while she works. She has now decided after an argument between them that he can only have them every other weekend. He sometimes has them 6 nights a week depending on her shifts at work. What first steps do we have to take to get something in place so he has them 3 nights a week staying at our house? Do we go to a solicitor?
Pat 03/11/2018 at 10:47 pm
My son is in court Monday for first hearing for him to have contact with his children will he be able to show the judge text messages his ex sent me saying what a good dad he is but now she's saying he's abusive false allegations
HK 23/10/2018 at 6:17 pm
Hi, my friend got a married woman pregnant. She didn’t tell him until the day she was in labour. According to her, she told her husband the baby isn’t his, but it’s not known if this is true. My friend has been seeing the baby without husband knowing and wants to be an active dad with as much contact as possible. The woman’s husband is on the birth certificate and she is very volatile. She is also from Kazakhstan and has threatened moving there with the baby if the husband found anything else out. My friend is considering applying for parental responsibility and trying to get contact. He is scared of rocking the boat if he formally asks her, due to the flight risk. What does he need to do? Can he apply for PR at court or are there steps before that? How long will it take to get into court for a decision? The other woman has lied about a lot of things and there is a real flight risk given she has a house in Kazakhstan. It would be good to know how best to approach this legally and preferably without her just going abroad. Baby is 6 weeks old.
Thanks
Daddydolittle 14/10/2018 at 2:47 pm
Hi, I am acting on behalf of my son who is working abroad. He and his ex-wife agreed telephone contact on a Sunday by agreement in August. Since then the mobile phone has not been on apart from twice, when he has been able to speak to his daughter for around 5 minutes. Excuses are made the daughter is ill but in most cases the mobile phone is not turned on. As my son lives abroad can he still apply for a Contact Order whilst he is abroad and include what contact he would like when and if he returns to the UK. His daughter is 8 years old and his ex-mother in law insists he daughter doesn’t want to speak to him but doesn’t give any reason for his. Any advice would be grateful as I would need to represent my son as he is abroad.
Akrm 20/09/2018 at 7:11 pm
I applied for direct contact but dismissed by District Judge, applied permission to appeal and got oral hearing without asking. Now permission to appeal dismissed and no further hearing by Circuit Judge. With no judgement notes. Now can I appeal to Court of Appeal or apply again C100 and when ? Please help, I am an LIP. Thanks.
SeparatedDads Editor 18/09/2018 at 3:37 pm
Unfortunately, whatever the reason your ex is not allowing you access to your child, your only recourse is to go through the motions laid out via which
Mister 18/09/2018 at 7:32 am
I separated from my ex in March. We had been living seperatly for 6 months before that but still had a physical relationship throughout that time. I'm pretty sure she met someone else because all of a sudden she is making it impossible for me to see my 4 years old Angel. There has never been abuse of any kind and I don't understand it. I'm out of work but was always very generous in the past. I don't deserve this. Do I?
gary 17/09/2018 at 5:19 pm
hi all , my partner has accused me of 1 violent assault, apprently throwing her against her wall and dragging her off the sofa. however i have responded to her allegations with oure denial as this never happened, she has never reported to the police or anyone else, also her doctors letter came threw saying they had no concern when we was together of any domestic abuse. so with no evidence at all will the court allow a supervised interim contact until the finding if fact hearing, i am in court thursday to direct whether there needs to be one and have been advised there most probaly will, does any legal adviser or judge ask for any evidence before decding this? please someone respons
SeparatedDads Editor 07/09/2018 at 9:50 am
whichwill help you/him further as it gives you a link to the court forms to fill in. Your son may wish to join the Separated Dads forum if he is representing himself - our dads can give help and advice having been through the process previously.
Ness63 06/09/2018 at 6:21 am
Hi, can anyone tell me how my son can represent himself in court to get supervised access with his daughter? Social services have no problem with him seeing her as long as contact is supervised but my sons ex is refusing to let family supervise contact so he's been told his only option is to apply for a contact order at court. We don't know which form to fill in. He will have to represent himself as he's on benefits. He has parental responsibility and has had contact 'on and off' with his daughter for 3 years, depending on his ex's moods. Thank you
Ads88 20/08/2018 at 3:30 pm
Hi all, My ex left me over 2 month ago we have a 5 month old baby boy together, when she left we agreed to do things amicably. When I rang the next day to ask when she was bringing him to see me her mother(ex’s Mum) answered and told me not to call again and that I ain’t seeing him so then I told her that I’ll just turn up at there home and fight in court if needs be, the next thing I know I’m in the police station amswering allegations about domestic abuse etc over the years in our relationship (witch are false) the police came to the decision of no further action as there isn’t any proof (obviously) the next thing I know they have taken a non molestation order out on me witch I attended court for and agreed to undertakings where I accepted the non mol but not the allegations! Since then I tried mediation I attended my MIAM and she didn’t turn up to her non of hers (2) to witch I asked for my application to court. I have now paid for court and am awaiting on my hearing date! How long does this usuall take to receive my date and then how long is it usually to get to court? Also these allegations they have made against is it going to turn the judge/cafcas against me?! The pain of not seeing my boy is unreal and the thought of having to wait even longer lols. Thanks in advance
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