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Children may be taken into care as the result of a care order or by your agreement that your child will be 'looked after'. If a care order is in place, your local council will share parental responsibility with you, and so share responsibility with you for making important decisions about your child's life. These decisions will include: Where they will live, who they will live with and where they will go to school.
If no care order is in place and your child is in care by consent, you will retain parental responsibility. However your local council will still be responsible for ensuring that an appropriate standard of care is provided, and that those looking after your child are capable of doing so.
Your child may be placed with other relatives, foster carers, or in a children's home. Your local council will be able to discuss this with you. Clearly there is a preference that other relatives look after your child, and often they will receive better care with a relative, simply because there are less children to look after. However this will not always be possible or appropriate and so cases are looked at individually to decide where best to place a child.
What is a care order?
A care order is an order made by the court under the Children Act 1989. This order gives your Local Council parental rights and so allows them to make decisions about your child's upbringing. The difference between a Care Order and a Supervision Order is that under a Supervision Order, your Local Council will advise you what is best for your child, whereas under a Care Order, they will tell you what is best.
In order to obtain a Care Order, your Local Council must prove on the balance of probabilities to the court that your child is suffering, or at risk of suffering, significant harm.
The order will last until:
- The child's 18th birthday
- The court discharges (cancels) the order
- Or an adoption order is made
The process
1) If your Local Council is worried about your child's care and are considering applying to court for your child to be taken into care, you will receive a "Letter before proceedings". This letter invites you to go to a meeting to discuss concerns about your child's care. If you do not do so, the Council may apply to the Court without discussing their concerns further with you - the letter is a final notice to parents. You may want to seek legal advice at this point; your local town will have a family law solicitor who will be able to discuss payment.2) At a pre-proceedings meeting, the Council's concerns about your child's care will be discussed. You will consider with the Council how you can change the way that you look after your child, and how the Council can assist you to do this. Any plans will be formally recorded in a written agreement that both you and the Council must stick to. If you refuse to make any changes, the Council is likely to apply to the courts for a care order. If you would like to find out more details about this meeting, a useful guide can be found at www.justice.gov.uk .
[Note that in cases where the Local Council is concerned about an immediate and serious risk to your child, they may make an emergency application to the courts and not follow all of the above steps.]
3) If your Local Authority remains unhappy, they can apply for an interim care order. This allows them to take your child into care on a temporary basis, for up to 8 weeks. This eight week period may then be extended for up to 28 days. There is no limit on the amount of times a temporary order can be extended, though if multiple extensions are sought, your Local Council is likely to consider applying for a longer term care order.
4) The court may then consider a longer term or permanent care order. It usually takes the court between 9 months and a year to decide a care case. During this year, a social worker, and an officer from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (CAFCASS) will speak to you and your family about your child, to assess any risks to your child. Both the social worker and CAFCASS officer will prepare a report for the court. These reports will state whether they think the child should be taken into care, and whether they consider that it would be appropriate for them to live with a relative.
5) If the court decides that you will never be able to have your child back, they may make an adoption order. This will sever any legal links you have to your child. If your child is adopted, you will no longer have any parental responsibility for them and will not usually be able to see them. If your child is adopted, usually you will not be allowed to contact them at all; if your child wishes to see you, they will be given details about you once they reach 18 years old.
The decision to make an adoption order is not taken lightly as it is a permanent order; once your child has been adopted, the order cannot be reversed. An adoption order may be made with your consent. Alternatively, the court may make the order against your wishes if they consider that this is in the best interests of your child.
Normally you will be consulted about this decision. However you will not be able to have any say about your child's future unless you have parental responsibility. You will have parental responsibility if:
- You and the child's mother were married at the time the child was born
- Your name is on the child's birth certificate
- By agreement with the child's mother (e.g. if you have joint custody of your child)
- By order of the court
If you think that you should have parental responsibility for a child on the child protection register or who is in care, seek independent legal advice (from one of the sources at the end of this article) urgently. You will not be kept updated regarding decisions made about your child if you do not have parental responsibility.

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If your child is placed with foster carers or in a children's home, you will naturally want to ensure that your child is being properly looked after. All children's home workers and foster carers are CRB checked and receive training relating to looking after children, particularly those who are especially vulnerable.
The Local Council will have an education plan for your child. This will include what school your child will attend, and the longer term plans (such as which secondary school they will attend). The social worker is responsible for ensuring that your child is supported at school (the school will have a designated teacher who oversees the education of children in care), and that they attend school every day.
Your child's carers will also attend school events such as parents' evenings. If you would like to see a copy of your child's school reports or hear what their teachers said at parents evenings, ask your child's social worker; it will often be possible to facilitate this and keep you involved.
If you are concerned about your child's education or other aspects of their care whilst they are subject to a care order, you can complain.
- 1) Speak to their social worker or carer about your concerns
- 2) If you remain unhappy, complain to your Local Council. You can find your Local Council's "Let Us Know" form at www.gov.uk
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The Child Protection Register
The Child Protection register is a confidential list of all children in a local area who are known or believed to be at risk of significant harm. A Child Protection Conference by your Local Council may decide to put a child's name on the list, which will only be disclosed to relevant professionals such as teachers, police officers, doctors and social workers.
Once a child's name is on the list, it will not necessarily stay on the list permanently. A Review Conference will review whether your child's name should be on the list 3 months after it is first put there. If they agree, the list will be reviewed again 6 months after the first Review Conference. Your child's name will only remain on the list until your Local Council consider that they are no longer at risk of harm.
The above is a classic example of when a child would be placed on the child protection register. If the child remained with their mother, they would likely stay on the register. However if custody has now been awarded to the father who is a responsible parent, the child may be removed from the register after a short period of time; every case is assessed individually to ensure that the child is adequately protected.
Further help
You can get further help in dealing with a care case from the following sources:
- A legal aid solicitor (who will often be able to provide free advice paid for by the Government)
- Family Rights Group - a charity assisting parents with a child in care. Freephone 0808 801 0366 (Lines open 10am-3:30pm Monday to Friday). www.frg.org.uk
- Citizens Advice Bureau - www.citizensadvice.org.uk
- Parentline Plus - a charity working with parents. www.parentlineplus.co.uk Call 0808800 2222 - lines open 24/7.
I am dad of two girls. I am working in UAE.
My wife left for UK two years back for good before I move to UK.
I came to know two days back that my wife and kids were taken by social services and till now there is no news. I call SS they said that they are OK and thats it. I am coming to uk next week and really worried about my family.
I don’t have clue what to do. I want to have some advise so that I can act fast once in UK.
Please advise what can I do?
Should I contact local council?
I would greatly appreciate your advise to save my family,
Many thanks
But my question is, if my daughter is taken out of her mum's care and put into the care system, how does that affect my access, is she still able to come stay with me on the pre-arranged days like normal.
I'm so scared.
What happens to payments to the cms if a child that does not live with him gets taken into care by the local authority
My partner had a child removed in the past, he knows he wasn't there when he should have been, but he was really young.
Now we are going to have a bby should I tell social. We are in the UK
daughter back please need a little advice
My child is currently cared for by my mother under a drawn out interim care order.
The father was paying £80 per week child support but decided to stop in December despite proceedings starting in August.
I, the mother contribute £400 a month to my mother in child support. The local authority provide £160. Grandmother is struggling as gave up her full-time Job so care for our son which was a decision made without my consent and I am fighting for custody.
I have read if your child is in Care over 263 days in a year no child support may be made. He is currently been under my mothers care for 187 Days.
Should the father be paying his weekly amount still? He earns £900 a WEEK and doesn’t even so much as split the costs of essentials.
My mother wouldn’t receive my £400 plus his £80 a week if he was to pay as I am essentially paying the amount for both of us. I would like us to split this cost.
We both still have PR and only an interim order is in place.
Thanks so much
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