How Do I Find My Children's New Address?

@jay.hey bro I never paid cent in child support and never had the burden off looking after kid and now that they grown I know she can’t get any money off me .I changed my numbers and got off social media because (I don’t want them to find me )gods truth .I couldn’t think off anything worse to have sum 20 year old woman with daddy issues for daddy do good .

Hi. I have twin boys who are now 19years. I have not seen them since they were 9years old as their mum and family have stopped me. How can I find them to make contact and see if they are ok? I AM ready to meet them again if they are willing to also as I don’t know what they have been told about me.

@n/a .in my situation I don’t ever want to meet my daughter I made that decision many years ago .even if she wanted to meet me as bad as you want to meet your kids .my answer is (no )because like you it’s been 15 for myself with no contact and (it’s been the best 15 years off my life ).you see I never wanted a wife or kids I was 22 and got trapped bye a older women who already had a kid and was super damaged mentally like the father off her son killed he’s self .it was the worst thing I ever got myself into I just a naive kid at the time .I guess not ever men wants to have kids .

@ n/a .you are probably going to kick the bucket bro and go the glory .before you find them 75 years old and unwell 20 years no contact .(not the greatest odds bro .)why after( 20 years that you need to find them ?)we are all going to die brother that’s one trip we all take alone .(bro focus on the people in your life currently) . straight up bro I bet they wouldn’t won’t to meet anyway 20 years bro that a life time .let it go is my advice

I have not seen my children for 20 years. My wife died and my stepson caused chaos. I am now 75 , unwell. I need to find them before it's too late.

@missx.in my situation I don’t want find there address I’m completely happy with zero contact it’s been 15 years for myself without contact so I have zero emotional connection with her daughter .I could walk past her in the street and wouldn’t even recognise Her .i think with my kind off time frame it do more harm then good seeing her .(who knows what her mother told her she could have told her that I’m dead and I’m pretty sure she would already have a father figure in her life but though her daughters eyes it would be her father) .so personally think it’s best keep things the same way .(i am to old for that kind off drama in my life for the first time in my life I have found sum sort off peace it’s taken over 40 years for me to find any kind off peace ).but good luck finding your three children .

Hello I know this is a dad's website but I'm a mother trying to find my 3 children aged 12, 14 and 16. I have not seen them for 6 years despite having a court order. I had nothing but trouble from the step mother who made up so much lies and problems and stopping my contact because I wouldn't do it her way. I ended up more mentally ill and I just decided I'd let the kids live there life. But now I feel more stable and i am just wanting in direct contact because I unfortunately have limited mobility and they either live 100 miles away or I have reason to believe there 170 miles away. I'm at a loss. I went on one tracing agent site and they said they need the person's consent to give me the information which is never going to happen. Also when using a tracing agent am I best of trying to locate the father rather than the children? Please someone give me some advice. Thank you.

Hi, I'm in need of some advice for my situation if anyone can help. I have a 12 year old son who I haven't had any form of contact for 10 years, I have been paying Child Maintenance through CMS for 10 years and still don't have any idea if my son knows about me? The ex partner blocked or changed her socials, I've attempted to send birthday gifts for his 5th birthday via Royal Mail special delivery (next day) but was not accepted, so got sent back to myself unopened?! I tried going through Family courts before he turned 2 years old, it got thrown out of court as the mother and nan stated he has autism and ADHD, which I know now cannot be diagnosed at a young age. The judge agreed with them and so I'm left with no contact with my son. For 10 years CMS been taking child maintenance from me and Recently I found out they've moved addresses? How can I find their new address if I wanted to file a case in Family court again? CMS is no help! I managed to contact the ex on tiktok, she wasn't happy as all I wanted to know is if my son knows about his biological father? She replied with that she 'apparently' told my son about me and he 'apparently' said he's not ready to meet me yet. Gave it a few weeks then messaged ex if I could ask her something about my son.... What I wanted to ask her is for me to speak to my son through phone, hear him say he is not ready to meet me yet? Before I could ask the ex, she went on a rant about not to contact her and ends up blocking me on tiktok, also deleted her tiktok account!? Did I say something wrong wanting to hear my son's voice after 10 years? I wanted to hear from my 12 year old son if he wants to meet his father or not? I've waited 10 years, I can happily wait bit longer if my son was to tell me himself?! Now I'm at a loss, frustrated and more determined to ask my son myself anyway possible IF he wants to meet his father or not? So, this is what I know of my son. Currently know the secondary school he is attending, can I contact the school to asked them to pass on my message to my son? Maybe, give my email address to them or my son to contact me when he is ready to meet? I do not want to break the law, so asking for advice how I can approach this legally as I am on his birth certificate, which I can provide the school as evidence I have parental responsibility. Next query is how can I find out their new address if I wanted to file a case with family courts? Lastly, how else can I make contact with my son? Just want to hear from my son what he has to say about knowing his father.. any advice would help and I'm happy to take this on private chat if I need to. Thanking you all Recently,

Hi, I can across your page and I appreciate your content. my ex partner moved to the UK with his new partner and my two kids. I got to know from social media pictures. I have requested to be connected with the kids and he is refusing. I don't know whereabouts they live in the UK (I am also in the uk, we are from Nigeria)to be able to serve a court order or anything. I am thinking of making a social media appeal to the public to help me find my children. I am worried about the kids and one of the kids is not his biological child she's from a previous relationship. I don't know if my idea on how to find my kids is trouble for the kids or me legally? I will appreciate your advice thanks.

Hi I'm looking for my son I've not seen for 6 years he is now 12. His mother has gave me nothing but trouble since the day he was born, we have been to court I have a court order in place and she still decides to take the law into her own hands solicitors want thousands again it's wrong, went to the house today with his brother and sisters to post Christmas cards to be told via a ring door bell that they moved away I personally think it's nonsense but it could be true.

Hello iv been with my partner for 5 years I am a qualified level 3 nursing nurse and worked with children 12 years I met my parent on tinder he told me he has 2 children boy and girl I also told him as much as I want children (I wanted children so much with the right person) but I cant have them he then told me hid baby mum was always saying he could see them then saying he couldn't then he could then couldn't but he was the best dad ever it was 16 months he asked his ex if he could meet them with me he told her everything about me how I worked with children but she said no as I was angry Daniel didn't have a phone so when he had his kids and they was a sleep he went on their phone and i said witch I no is out of order (but I was so annoyed as I worked with children every day and love them ) and she was so controlling I said she was a twat and probably more but I dont remember if but I think it is about time she gives him a chance as he loves them children Oscar and skylier more then anything in this world and to given him a chance with them I will walk away as he is not him without his children

Hi what is the best way to find my 12 years old son which is been taken by my ex partner and befor I had contact with him every Saturday but because he didn't want to go back to her mum she start playing by don't answer the phone or bring him and hiding from me or once she told me come outside of his school and when I went there she try upset me to make argument and call police again when I decide only I can find her at her job to find out what is the reason for hiding she call police and complaining for harassment which after few months her friend told me she did that to have evidence of domestic violence for more chances to get council house and I don't find out about the boyfriend who is a toyboy with 15 years age gap and I may make trouble by involving social workers. Now she blocked my number and changed my son school and her address I don't know what is the best thing to do? The reason I wrote all this story of my life was because I was thinking no one deserves this I been true and by reading that they more careful what there ex partners may do to them.

Hi I’ve been trying to find my 10 year old son my ex wife keeps moving about can anyone help me go in the right direction please

Im looking for my 3 year old son. All I have is his b.c., ss card, medical coverage and bills, and a few personal things. What do i do? Someone please... Point in the right direction... Please

Hi In2008 my ex she took my children away and she left the house while am in work after work i went back home to find the hiuse is empty she took everything thats ok but she took my kids away from me i tried to find her couldnt now its been twn years i tried every thing to find and contact my kids but couldnt find any thing in social media today is the5th of august 2021 am still cant beleive she took away the best children in my intier life i left uk and now i live in spain but every single second every day i still think about my kids i know that the older is nearly 17 the young is 13 is that fare what alife i deserve to do that to me thx

I am looking for my 10 year old son because I don't know where he and him birth mother is. We had a 2-min 1-night stand when the condom broke. He was 6-month old when I last spent time with him. She had kept him away since. The mother seem not to be on social media but I have his name and dob and would like to find him but I don't know where to start or where to look. They were last seen in Strood, Kent.

My husband is looking for his daughter who would be 16years old but the birth mother never let him be a part of his daughter life as he was only 15 when he had her and the mother was older then him but all we have is a name and dob and would like to try and he would like to find her but I don't know where to start or where to look

Ex-husband great-grandmother Ashley could she get the kids for the weekend took my children block me from her phone and moved away what do I do to find my kids?

My ex has moved and changed phone number need help finding her so that I can see my son her name is Carly jade hennings

Me and my ex wife split up 4 years ago and she stopped me for seeing my son which is heartbreaking because I've not been able to see him for 3 years it's hard not being able to see him growing up. I've tried getting in contact with her and her mother they kept ignoring my emails phone call etc shes moved away somewhere both only thing I do know is what school my little boy goes to and that is it. I dont know what to do