How to Write Your Statement for Court

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How to Write Your Statement for Court

What is a witness statement?

A witness statement is a written document that sets out your version of events in your own words. In family court proceedings involving children, it gives you the chance to explain your situation, your concerns, and what arrangements you believe would be best for your child.

The court relies on witness statements to understand each parent's perspective before a hearing. Your statement may be the main way the judge learns about your circumstances, so it needs to be clear, honest, and well organised.

If you have applied for a child arrangements order, or you are responding to an application made by the other parent, the court will usually set a deadline for when your statement must be filed and sent to all other parties. Missing this deadline can result in your statement being disregarded entirely, which may seriously affect your ability to present your side of the case. If you cannot meet a deadline, contact the court promptly or seek legal advice about requesting an extension.

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Formatting requirements

Witness statements in family proceedings must follow rules set out in the Family Procedure Rules and relevant Practice Directions. Getting the format right shows the court you have taken the process seriously and makes your statement easier to read.

At the top left of your statement, write the name of the court in capital letters. The case number should appear on the top right.

Below this, set out the names of the parties. The person who made the application is the Applicant, and the other party is the Respondent. This is usually written as:

  • Between: [Applicant's full name] (Applicant)
  • And: [Respondent's full name] (Respondent)

Give your statement a title that makes its purpose clear, such as "Witness Statement of [Your Name]".

Number each paragraph and include page numbers throughout. This makes it easier for everyone to refer to specific parts of your statement during the hearing. Use a clear font such as Arial or Times New Roman in size 12, with 1.5 line spacing, and set margins that ensure readability. Check whether your local court has additional formatting requirements.

At the end of your statement, you must include a statement of truth in accordance with Practice Direction 22A under the Family Procedure Rules. This confirms that you believe the facts you have written are true. The standard wording is: "I believe that the facts stated in this witness statement are true. I understand that proceedings for contempt of court may be brought against anyone who makes, or causes to be made, a false statement in a document verified by a statement of truth without an honest belief in its truth."

Sign and date the document below the statement of truth.

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What to include in your statement

Start with some basic background. Give your full name, address, and your relationship to the child. Briefly explain the history of your family situation, including when you and the other parent separated and what the arrangements for your child have been since then.

Move on to explain what you are asking the court to order, or if you are the respondent, your position on what the applicant has requested. Be specific about the arrangements you want. Rather than saying you want "regular contact", set out the days, times, and any details about handovers or holidays.

If there are particular concerns you want the court to know about, explain them factually. Stick to what you have seen or experienced directly. Avoid guessing at the other parent's motivations or making accusations you cannot support. Courts generally favour factual and measured language over emotional appeals or personal attacks.

Where you have evidence to back up what you say, mention it briefly and indicate that you can provide documents if needed. This might include text messages, emails, medical records, or school reports. If a Cafcass assessment has been carried out, refer to any relevant findings where they support your position.

Think about what the other parent is likely to say and, where appropriate, respond to points you expect them to raise. This shows the court you have considered the full picture.

Keep your child at the centre of your statement. The court's main concern is what arrangement will best serve the child's welfare. Focus on practical matters: stability, routines, schooling, health needs, and your child's relationships with both parents and other family members.

Practical tips for writing

Present your narrative directly using the first person. Use "I" rather than "the Applicant" when referring to yourself. This keeps your statement personal and easier to follow.

Keep sentences short where you can. Long, complicated sentences are harder to follow and may obscure your main points. Read your statement aloud to check it flows naturally.

Avoid legal jargon unless you are certain of its meaning. Plain English is always better. If you are unsure about a term, leave it out or look it up on GOV.UK or in the court's guidance notes.

Maintain honesty and transparency in your accounts. If there are facts that do not reflect well on you, it is usually better to acknowledge them briefly and explain the context than to hope the court does not find out. Judges are experienced at spotting gaps in evidence.

Check the page limit. Some courts set a maximum length for witness statements, often around 15 to 25 pages depending on the type of hearing. If yours is running long, look for repetition or material that does not add anything new.

Before filing, ask someone you trust to read through your statement. A fresh pair of eyes can catch errors and unclear passages. If you can afford it, a family law solicitor can review your draft and suggest improvements. When engaging a solicitor, follow any procedural advice they give about your specific case and court.

Once your statement is complete, make enough copies for the court, the other party, and anyone else the court has directed. Keep a copy for yourself to refer to at the hearing.

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freedomtoexpress 08/05/2022 at 8:40 am
Hello, I have a family court hearing coming up as my partner has withdrawn my children from schools without my knowledge and relocated. she has since applied for schools in new location again without my knowledge and consultation. mediation has taken place and no agreement has been made on contact or most importantly residence. My application includes prohibited steps order to stop/reverse her actions of withdrawing the children from schools and also of residence and contact which there was no time to discuss in the mediation. Before the court hearing is it still worth engaging in mediation to establish contact as she denies me physical contact with my children given it is costing me money and partner is not entitled to legal aid and as it will be an interim agreement, it won't be legally binding as my primary objective is residency of my children whom since have been registered by my partner is average schools compared to the one's she withdrew them from and are now living 4 hours drive away from the family home. There are no DV issues involved with partner or safeguarding issues with the children on my part.
Ric 17/03/2021 at 6:55 am
I have started the process of a contact order as I haven’t been able to see my children in 2 years. I have submitted a position statement being very fair and asking for contact, however the mother (respondent) has submitted quite a cruel position statement with many untruths, and I would like to reply before the legal advisor reviews all of the reports on 25th March. Can anyone advise if there is a template or how to respond to a position statement? I am representing myself
Shaun 28/02/2021 at 10:08 pm
Please fix the forum to allow new members to join please.
Kez 24/02/2021 at 12:26 pm
Hi
I am facing a 4th hearing as my ex (on the 3rd hearing) has now falsely accused me of using drugs and finding a white residue in my WC (no evidence provided at hearing as it a lie) on my only visit my son had at my home (supervised by her) I have been having visits every Saturday since April 2020 but always outside and with my ex supervising ( she ignored all the court orders which I tired to complain to court about but to no avail) so I just have to go along with it otherwise I won't get to see my son. Has anyone had any experience of their ex falsely acusing them of drug taking so that they can slow the process down etc as now I have to write a statement for the court again ( longer than a position statement) I am representing myself and she has a barrister !!!
Woodi 19/02/2021 at 11:45 am
I need statement for court for family law
TonyWalker 12/07/2019 at 3:21 pm
My son tried to harm himself at his mum house and now lives with me. He doesn't want to return back to his mum care and they are blaming me for that saying I am emiormal abusing my son.

My daughter lived with her mum and now she says she doesn't want to see me. All I want is what is best for my children.

I agreed in court that my son lived with his mum but Social Worker says it's best he lives with me and my daughter lived with her mum and they have contact with other parent. My ex doesn't agree to that and cafcas are with her and advice her when I ask for advice they filed court application saying I'm not stable. Please help me as my son is 11 and he is begging me that he doesn't go back to his mum.
cooper343 16/05/2019 at 9:11 pm
I have to fill in a statement for court proceedings i have on the 12th June but need to get everything in by the 20th May.

the court has included I should do the following but i dont understand what it means:
#add standard clause restricting oral evidence if no statement prepared.
#add standard clause re use of template
#add standard clause re content of statement
#add standard clause re form of statement

Please can someone help with this.

Kind Regards
Cooper
JAY B 09/02/2019 at 2:17 pm
On the 23/12/18 my wife broke me by attacking me, punching me in the face in front our children age 4 half and 9 something i never believe would happen i left the home and now i have a molestation order agains me as she is now playing the victim i have suffered D.V from her over 2 years always within the home nothing ever reported to police , the only] proof i have is doctors , however my wife is now stopping me seeing the children the one fact i have is i was the stay at home father looking after all the children needs while the wife worked , this has now completely changed I'm currently homeless not aloud to enter my own home to drop children of or pick them up , this whole situation is crazy everywhere i go to get some help i get nothing its madness any help would be amazing !
Danielboii2k17 05/12/2016 at 6:13 pm
Hi recently I broke up with my ex we was together for 3 years we have got a 2 year old daughter together she have stopped my contact with my little girl for no reason I tryed everything been to mediation but she turned it down been so social worker as I have had alot of concerns with my ex and her family around ny daughter I have been to speak to a solicitor for advice now I have been to court to get help with my court forms now they are send off now waiting for the court date my ex have been having assessment done with her house like a house check and also on her and her family her dad and mum treats my ex like a baby and she is 24 now they keep speaking for her because she wount talk for her self recently I had a random phone call on a private number someone in her family send threats to me so had to get the police involved as im only concerned about my daughter nothing else I need help with a statement for court so I can show the judge everything I just dont know how or what to do can someone give me a bit of advice please would much appreciate it
angus 27/05/2016 at 2:29 am
hi my wife and I separated in December 2015 due to her starting a new relationship . Due to this relationship and her behaviour and neglect of the children I removed our daughter from her care in January 2016 and also my step daughters 15 and 12 years of age decided they wished to live with me . My ex- wife then assaulted me in front of the children and was arrested ,
social services have been involved and done a report on the family which the court has seen a copy of . All 3 girls remain in my care at this time .

I need help as my ex-wife has taken me to court over residence of our 4 year daughter. We are both representing ourselves in court and have had the first hearing at which we were asked to write a statement to the court and cafcass telling them what we want the court to do about contact .
can anyone suggest how I should lay this statement out and weather I should include the reason why I don't want my daughter to live with her mother , why I have taken my daughter into my care, the fact she is still being abusive towards me via text even though she has regular day time only contact with her children , or should I just stick to the issue of contact ? thanks
MsG 07/04/2016 at 8:03 am
As the co-guardian and co-conservatorship, can i request financial records for the ward for the last 10 years and beyond? and if yes, how far back can we research records?
Holly 29/03/2016 at 2:47 pm
pending family court case. Re My sons access, and unjust accusation, from his Sons Mummy.Re Concernes. After reading my Gradsons, Nurserry mangers statement.s. It has become evedent, befor writting hers. She was shown my Statement. Hence, I feel it Unjust, her so called Swotting Up, in unfair defence befor writting hers...
Surly this is an injustice of court.
Please Help
Annie 23/09/2015 at 11:46 am
@t-jay - it's not lawful to marry your own sister!
t.jay 22/09/2015 at 1:15 pm
A elder brother got up and get married with his real blood sister. How can this issue can be sold?
Sos 20/07/2015 at 1:23 pm
Hi Iam looking for any advice on preparing a finale statement for court I have represented myself in court for the last couple of years but this really has me in a state I don't know how to set it out or what to include any advice would be more than welcome

Thank you
JohnJ Editor 17/02/2015 at 12:28 pm
@HE - if you are not represented in court, it sounds like you may need to see or get some proper legal advice. Have you tried the CAB? As they may have a legal representative that can help you. In general terms I think, but can't be 100 per cent sure, in cases involving children in particular, courts are anxious to avoid the situation of costs awarded against one parent or another where a parent may feel "punished" by the other parent. This is due to the fact it might reduce co-operation between them and ultimately impinge against the welfare of the child/ren. Usually costs are only be made if the penalised party has been unreasonable in their conduct of the litigation.
HE 15/02/2015 at 9:58 am
Hi - I have just gone through the first stage of obtaining a court order for a set visitation order for my daughter. There have ben a number of problems for years and I should have done these years ago. My question is - after the first hearing we are now going to Magistrates Court, as there were some issues we couldn't resolve. As past of this negotiations where left open (The mother has a solicitor I do not) I tried to negotiate with the solicitor but found this unbalanced and wanted it to continue to court. The solicitor is now saying that I will be responsible for her fees as I didn't agree the terms of the negotiations with her and have continued to court. How can this be? It is the mother’s choice to use a solicitor and to continue to use her through court? What I am asking is so little and I see no need for problems in court or why the mother even needs a solicitor (who is like a pit ball) I found the negotiations very unfair and wanted an equal hearing at court isn't this my right? Would appreciate some advice thank you I am unable to afford paying her fees
sarsara 26/09/2014 at 11:56 am
my wife want to end the mariage but she want me out of our coucil house my kids want me to stay i told her she is got to move out what are my chances of keeping the house
tony1 06/08/2013 at 11:37 pm
hi, im desperately seeking advice, me and my ex split January of this year, since then contact arrangements for my 3 and 2 yr old little girls have been fairly good although a little strained at times, during this period I have noticed things that have gave me genuine cause for concern but no actual proof to take things any further or even voice my suspicions through fear of reprisals, this weekend I collected my children as agreed with nothing really out of the ordinary other than meeting her new partner which I felt had gone well, however the following evening I received a message via facebook from my exs brother voicing concerns over my ex partners parenting and these concerns included children being neglected for long periods of time particularly in mornings which I know to be true as this was always an issue when we was living together, there are also allegations of drug and alcohol abuse including taking my youngest to pub and returning home drunk, and the scariest of all these allegations was that my exs new partner is currently facing a rape charge in crown court next month and that he as been spending a lot of time with my children including being left alone with them, which as now been confirmed to me by social services although they did say that he would not be considered a risk to my children, obviously in light of these allegations and the facts concerning exs new partner I have refused to return the children home because of my fears for their well being, I have been advised that im within my rights to do so as I have parental responsibility but I am genuinely terrified that the courts are only going to see that I have refused to return children and not the reasons why!, apparently I do not qualify for legal aid even though I now cant work, I am seriously very scared for my children and the reprisals that will come of this if shes granted residency, I am considering giving her contact with children via Skype etc but really unsure as to whether this is a good idea, I am also really struggling with benefits system as ive always worked and have no idea where to start, if anybody as experienced anything similar or as any advice it would be really gratefully received as I have found social services to be a complete waste of space and some what rude with it!
TM 30/09/2012 at 3:46 pm
Can a lawyer represent me in family court if I work outside the country?
pete 11/03/2012 at 9:20 pm
Just like to say this site has been very helpful in answering all question that I have had in my mind on seperating from my partner and still retaining contact with my daughter who is my world, And I will be donating and will be wearing the wrist band with pride. Thanks againPeter

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